Girl randomly becomes completely sketch?

[hsjunior12]

OK. So me and this other girl started hanging out a couple of time because we were being set up through friends. She was like easily an 8 so obviously I was pretty attracted to her from the start, but I didn't wanna try to go anywhere dating wise just because she was hot. We kept getting set up on "double dates" alot so we hung out a good bit and she turned out to be really cool. So then I started taking her out and started doing things just me and her. BUT I still kept my guard up to make sure I wasn't like getting used or some bullshit like that. We hung out a good bit for about 2 weeks and we both obviously liked each other. So then I made it clear that I really liked her and I was feeling the vibe she felt the same way. Everything was really good for about another 2 weeks. Then this past week I didn't see her very much (we were both just busy) we hung out Friday night for a short time ate dinner and talked for a long time. All was good! Then I didn't see her all day Saturday that night we both went to a party together, before I even got there I was pretty drunk. But i could still completely understand what was going on, things were a little weird that night but I didn't think much of it. The next day I kinda felt bad for wantin to hang out then getting drunk and just leaving her hanging so I called her to see about doin something that night. Things felt a little weird on the phone but we talked a little while and we both said we'd do something but wed figure it out that night. I texted her like 6 or 7 hours later and she never replied. Then late that night I texted her again no reply for about two hours when she said she had been busy. (although she updated Facebook and stuff but couldn't text me back to say she couldn't do anything) Very short convo then she apparently fell asleep. Next day was Monday I never saw her at school but frustrated she blew me off the night before I didn't try to text her (normally if I didn't text her she would text me) but she didn't. Then Tuesday I didn't see her till after school, I went to talk to her but things felt really weird which had never happened before and she was only like halfway paying attention. I told her she was being sketch for not trying to talk to me and she said I never tried to talk to her. I told her I tried to Sunday but she blew me off then I kinda sarcastically said and yesterday I was busy. Then I couldn't really stay to talk more because I had football so I left. I tried to talk text her that night but no reply. Now I havent talked to her in two days. Need some advice on what I should do and why you think things went from being so good to her acting now like she has no interest. I'm very confused. I'm not goin be someone that's stuck up her ass trying to beg and plead with her or get all worked up over it but this is the first girl iv liked in a pretty long time so if I can work it out I want to!

[slater]

No problems here .. She's just being a girl, detach from the drama and just go through it haha don't join it and get immersed in all the emotions she's feeling too .. your going to make poor decisions, your psyching yourself out. I would say just let the tension build, go see her, get sexual haha but it seems your as involved in the positive and negative emotions as she is so your head must be spinning .. Relax

[NorwegianDJ]

She isn't interested. Stop trying to communicate with her and she will come to you.

You didn't mention a single thing that you did. How sexual are you usually? Bases? This shit's important.

You seem sooooooooo logical about this. It's not logic. You cant convince her to feel good.

And don't be afraid to display interest either. It's fun and girls don't 'use you' when you display interest rather than when you don't.

[america]

I've never heard of a girl "using" a guy. Don't fall in to her bullshit. And don't complain to her about not talking to you. That shows neediness which is NOT attractive. If you don't give a fuck, she will give you one.

[hsjunior12]

So like I said earlier I tried to text her and stuff those few times but then I just quit talking to her. It's been like 4 days now that I haven't said a word to her and tonight shes been like dying to fig out why I haven't been trying to talk to her so we'll see how it goes. Good advice though!

[warkid10]

Im not sure if your in the same boat as me but im being used too! No one understood what i meant. My social value is higher than the girl im talking to so when she flakes on me or puts me off it feels like im being used. I just learned to not take any of that bullshit. Do what makes you happy. Even if it means losing "1" girl.