Pairo
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Post by Pairo on Oct 23, 2012 1:54:26 GMT -5
I know, this is a high school puas forum, but many of us are in uni and many others will be going to uni/college soon, so this topic is vital.
Question: What are the unique dynamics involved with a relationship in university/college?
Of course, there are tons of parties and lots of hooking up. There are FBs at times that you meet up with regularly, go to parties, and still hook up with. But what happens when you decide to start a LTR in university and what differences are there when its monogamous or poly?
Im mainly wondering if its realistic to go after multiple chicks when there is one girl that people see you holding hands with in the halls and know you are together. Plus, if you do go monogamous, whats the ground work that needs to be laid (no pun intended) to make sure its the best, most bad ass relationship out there?
Lots of questions, hopefully together we can find an answer.
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Post by NorwegianDJ on Oct 23, 2012 11:29:52 GMT -5
I think hot girls are a lot more likely to cheat if you're in uni.
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Post by infamous93 on Oct 23, 2012 14:31:57 GMT -5
I wouldn't go for a relationship during Uni (maybe later on in 4 year) but I'd keep things as casual as possible.
Now is the time to experiment and fuck around, you don't get that much time to do that so don't waste it. Plus girls are sooooo easy in University it's likely that your Gf will cheat on you at one point unless you find a really loyal girl (they are rare trust me) the fact of the matter is that you're likely to end up hurt.
Women always make it out that men are pigs but in my personal experience it's the women 9/10 that cheats on the man first, often times they will do it and you will never find out about it.
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Pairo
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Post by Pairo on Nov 20, 2012 0:32:59 GMT -5
Understood, just wanted to see what others have to say. Does anyone have any solid experience with uni relationships?
Definitely think its a bad idea to be monogamous, but that still doesnt answer my question:
Is it realistic to go after multiple chicks when there is one girl that people see you holding hands with in the halls and know you are together? How does you go about setting up a solid, open relationship with one girl as your main?
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Post by Sloth on Nov 20, 2012 16:53:30 GMT -5
i have pretty solid experience with uni relationship.
If you're talking about a genuine relationship then of course you should be monogamous, don't be that ass hole.
If you're talking about a fuck buddy, you're free to do whatever the hell you want, just make that clear with her.
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Post by Sketch on Nov 20, 2012 21:26:44 GMT -5
Why would you go round holding a girls hand around the halls if you just want to fuck her and mnay other girls too? That'll make her think you're more serious with her, and make other people think that too. Just don't go round acting like you're going out. Just fuck them then tell them to leave. Rinse and repeat.
-Sketch
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Post by Pairo on Nov 21, 2012 1:05:37 GMT -5
Both your answers are so simplified, its beautiful, guess I lost site of that.
My general outlook is I don't mind the hand holding, usually Im comfortable with holding hands with a girl I really like. Though I dont usually go for it, when she does I dont mind it for a bit. On top of that it happens in class too. Just the way I see it; if you like her why not? But actions mean more than words and if I act like a boyfriend Ill get treated like one
At the end of the day, part of me wants a relationship, but I have had negative college experiences in the past, and don't REALLY like her yet: its not the time. Im just naturally caring and that can translate in some boyfriend-like vibes. Gotta find some kind of balance
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