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Post by ihop on Oct 27, 2012 21:17:11 GMT -5
Girl=things you fuck friend=things you hang out with Girl+Friend=Female companion that you have intercourse with at times There is no reason you cant have more than one female companion  |
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Post by Adam on Oct 28, 2012 0:47:25 GMT -5
If you try to have more than one actuall girlfriend at your school (not talking about a girl you just fuck) you could possibly be fucked social circle wise when you get caught
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Post by darkpwns on Oct 28, 2012 2:16:34 GMT -5
Socially accepted definition of girlfriend is: Girl with whom you have a mutual agreement to share intimate relations with, exclusively.
Anything else is a fuck buddy. You can have multiple of those, however, only one girlfriend. Open relationships isn't really a proper boyfriend/girlfriend relationship.
Having a girlfriend is similar to being married, minus the legal complications. It's pretty much marriage practice.
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Post by RMO on Oct 28, 2012 4:22:14 GMT -5
It's pretty much marriage practice.  |
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Post by Snow.za on Oct 28, 2012 5:41:18 GMT -5
^^hahaha dat face
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Post by ihop on Oct 28, 2012 18:07:39 GMT -5
open relationship - she knows you re with other girls she knows whats up but still wants to be with you  |
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Post by Pairo on Nov 18, 2012 20:36:49 GMT -5
If you're looking for a literal definition, stick to Darkpwns first line. Im sure if you look it up in the dictionary you get something similar. And yeah...watch out if you have multiple gfs in the same school...
The word has a drastically different meaning between girls and guys. Girls see it as more of a "title" that she can go around flaunting to her social circle. Guys on the other hand tend to emphasize that girlfriend means she is exclusive. Unfortunately the terms aren't always synonymous and guys need to watch out.
At our age, girls that have lots of experience with multiple partners tend not to put much meaning behind it (she may shit test you by throwing it in here and there, it means nothing). I personally do not care what a girl calls me, it doesn't matter. The relationship itself is what matters.
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Post by ihop on Nov 21, 2012 18:16:56 GMT -5
The word has a drastically different meaning between girls and guys. Girls see it as more of a "title" that she can go around flaunting to her social circle. Guys on the other hand tend to emphasize that girlfriend means she is exclusive. Unfortunately the terms aren't always synonymous and guys need to watch out. Yeah, I agree with you, but i also believe that one doesn't have to follow the rules of what is deemed as acceptable to society. I believe that if you want your lifestyle to include more than one "girlfriend", social standards shouldn't hinder your pursuit of happiness. With that said, the typical high school environment does make it somewhat difficult to carry this out. Basically, what i do to manage is to come from that frame of being in my own reality and seeing that having multiple girls is natural as oppose to the way society sees it that if you have more than one girl you're a player and only want women for sex. When the truth is that you may just be the coolest guy around and alot of girls like you because you give them positive emotions and show them a good time. If you like more than one girl, and your the absolute man on campus, do you think that a girl will not accept the fact that you date other girls and wont go with you when in fact, women want the BEST? Do you think she is just going to settle for a scrub when you give her the opportunity to be with the best? |
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Post by Sketch on Nov 24, 2012 0:24:13 GMT -5
If you're honest with the girl, like "i don't want us to be exclusive, i want to see other people too, its not that anything wrong with you, it's just how i am, i like women, and if you're not cool with that then that sucks because you're a cool girl, but i'm not guna change the sort of person i am". Something along those lines.
It's always worked for me. Gets rid of a lot of hassle and stupid girls. And a lot of my mates are the same. It works. Be honest.
-Sketch
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Post by chiragaegis on Dec 26, 2012 6:30:19 GMT -5
In my opinion, a girlfriend is someone who you are very dose to, who you can trust and you are sexually involved with. However a girlfriend might be some one who you share time with and cuddle and talk with. It all depends on how you look at it. some girls like to wait for sexual things.
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