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Post by Icy on Nov 13, 2012 17:34:19 GMT -5
Sup Lads
Lately when i've approached girls, it turns out they have boyfriends. Not the "I have a boyfriend" excuse, but the boyfriend that shows up halfway into our convo and cockblocks me.
Now the thing is, I want to know if any of you guys have actually done so. I know I've read in a journals by some of you guys about getting a blowjob by some girl who just finished calling her boyfriend but what I want to know is if its right (morally).
Of course at a party its a different story because if a girl is grinding with you, she shouldn't be surprised if you make a move. But where is the morality of stopping from going for a girl when you realize she has a boyfriend. I personally wouldn't do it, but would you?
-Marvel
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RMO
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Post by RMO on Nov 13, 2012 17:44:05 GMT -5
Morality is subjective. Sure you could say there is objective justice that is in place to make sure murderers and rapists are punished for thier sins, but at the end of the day it's about choices. The choices YOU make. Personally I don't think its cool to feck around with other guys chicks, because I would hate to have that happen to me. BUT that is not to say I wouldn't flirt with her. You see when a girl leaves her boyfriend she already has a guy or three lined up to take his place.
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Post by Sloth on Nov 13, 2012 18:42:32 GMT -5
i wrote about this in my journal, it's a weird one.
i've been in a club and i've put in the graft to pull a girl only to b told she has a bf, and tbh i've knowingly persisted anyway
but at the same time a girls invited herself over and tried to fuck me and ive repeatedly turned her down because she had a bf.... but then i think if she really went for it i probably would of just done it
all in all, don't be a relentless ass hole about it, respect the bf to an extent, but quite frankly she could be lying or her bf could be a waster/ the relationship is basically over anyway.
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Adam
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Post by Adam on Nov 13, 2012 18:57:56 GMT -5
I use to strongly think that these girls were off limits but now not so much. It's your call it's not like your the one with a partner.
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enzo123
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Post by enzo123 on Dec 15, 2012 2:13:36 GMT -5
You only have one shot in this life. I mean, I personally would. I've done it by hooking up with girls that I knew had boyfriends at parties. Now if you're trying to have a relationship its a lil different. I'd say its the girl who is the one doing wrong by allowing you to hook up with her. It's not like you're forcing her. She probably isn't in a good relationship if she's looking for other guys anyway. So I'd so go for it.
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Pairo
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Post by Pairo on Dec 15, 2012 2:34:36 GMT -5
The only morality to consider is your own. if YOU think its alright, its alright. If YOU think its not, its not. However, you still have a duty as a man to be reasonable about it and respect all involved no matter what. None of us can tell you whats right and wrong, you gotta figure it out.
Personally, it does not matter to me. Most relationships are not properly done, a lot of neediness going back and forth, the ones that are will have girls I am unable to hook up with. If I know the boyfriend and he's generally chill, I won't pursue. Also, some girls need to get out and experience raw attraction they don't find in their mediocre relationship, depending on the girl, I respect her right to get that.
Pretty much, do whatever you think is right. If you do go for it, you may be introduced to some strange situations you haven't even thought of (i.e. blowjob before calling bf). Be prepared to keep an open mind.
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