A good Ole Introduction.

[jornkatarn]

Hello, I am 15 years old from the good ole US of A to start.
I joined the site to get more "insight" per sey into the game from more experienced people, as i have been involved with the game since Mid summer by one of my natural friends taking it upon himself to coach me a little bit, but i felt his advice was many times out of place with who i wanted to be.
one of my biggest catching points is escalation as i tend to either end up in the friend zone or manage to only escalate up to kissing/making out (im still a virgin as such).

[Sketch]

escalate like your life depends on it

[RMO]

Welcome to the forums son.

Escalation is FLIRTATION. Flirtation only works if it is enjoyable. Certain factors need to be taken into account.

1. Screen the girls. When you are courting a girl, you actually need to be attracted to her.
2. DO NOT BECOME OUTCOME DEPENDANT. What happens will happen. You cant control fate, only your own actions.
3. Become a touch based person. Try to communicate with touch. Be it to emphasis a point, or to shom compassion. Do not be afraid of other people's touch.
4. Risk it all. You either achieve your goal, or you die. Sure the first meeting might be just a number and a hug, but you WILL NEVER stop trying, never stop escalating.
5. have a good time. Touch, talk, flirting, its all great fun. Find something that excites you and keep at it.

Every problem you have is an excuse, and believe me, girls love men with no excuses. They may resist (not a rape thing) your advances, but this is something they think they must do, persevere bro.