crazyman
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Post by crazyman on Nov 20, 2012 20:56:11 GMT -5
How exactly does that work? I don't mean dating like you're in a relationship, I mean more like you go out someplace with a girl (ex. first/second date). Cause I still feel like I don't get it. Is is more like high school, where you meet a girl just to "hangout", or more like dating in the adult world, where you fully express that you want to take her out on a date?
I ask cause many times, I'll meet a girl in the day, that I'm interested in, and don't know how to progress the relationship.
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Post by Sketch on Nov 20, 2012 21:21:50 GMT -5
It's whatever you feel comfortable with really. The more comfortable you feel, the better the date will go. There's no rule on what age do you start taking girls out for dinner etc
-Sketch
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Post by Eastcoast on Nov 21, 2012 0:43:45 GMT -5
At my college people go out for coffee for the first dates usually. Its pretty loose I find, if you have the intentions of a relationship then you take it towards that route but if you are looking for a hookup i usually just invite them out to a party or a club because the atmosphere is much different.
I tend to go the route of inviting her out at night, it might be a party, or a club, bar. Whatever you can find. Then I do my thing and hook up with her. After that its a lot easier to decide where you want to take it because you've already been there and most of the time shes going to be a whole lot more into you.
So for your situation I'd probably say use the second strategy. But I've gone balsy and just asked a girl out for coffee when i've only recently met her and had success too. It's whatever route you want to take but the key is that you're actually making moves and trying it out to see what works for you.
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crazyman
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Post by crazyman on Nov 22, 2012 5:15:52 GMT -5
What about for girls that aren't into the whole party scene? In that.case, should you just try to hangout as much as possible?
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Post by Sketch on Nov 24, 2012 0:27:02 GMT -5
it doesn't have to be as much as possible like you said, you can just go to a different place. Like the park, walk around the local area, chill wherever you know is a cool spot or whatever. Like Eastcoast said, go with what works for you, you need to find that yourself. Which you'll only find through experience, not from reading, or us telling you, but from your own personal experience.
-Sketch
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Post by canadiankid on Nov 29, 2012 3:40:18 GMT -5
Most people I know go out for coffee or meet up for lunch in between classes. My new one is that I live fairly near a starbucks so I go for coffee, then get her to come back for a movie or whatever, which is really easy to escalate from. 2/2 on that one although no lays. I plan on making it 3/3 on friday. I feel similar to Matt in that it's a good way to start a possible relationship. But if I just want to hook up with a girl then I get her to come out and party, or even just a drink at the bar on campus.
Also, something I've noticed works really well lately is getting her to come out with a friend or two and having some of my friends with game their too. It adds value and everyone has more fun. This girl is literally begging my roommate to hang out and what not with her even though he as a gf that he's faithful to, and it all started with a few of us hanging out for pre-drinks at my place.
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