How to pick up shy girls

[evilg67]

I am new to this forum, and have been learning daygame for the last year or so. Just to get this out of the way, I'm not nerdy, and I have a pretty confident vibe, as well as I know how to walk, sit and talk. I find that it isn't that difficult to pick up a girl who is premiscuous, but there is this SHB9 in my first period class, who happens to be really shy. It has become more of a challenge than actually wanting to fuck her that much. She is very shy, insecure and seems very defensive. There is this cockblock who is an SHB8, but I'm not interested. There are a lot of obstacles, but my main one, and the one that is really pissing me off is the lack of a proper opener. After that, I know exactly what to say, it's just I can't think of a good opener. Since I missed 2 years of high school, I'm not sure if something related to school would work, or if I should just go direct. Please, if someone has dealt with a chick like this before, tell me the best way to get her to open up, metaphorically for now Thanks in advance.

[JUMB0z]

so you're asking how to open a shy HB9 that's in your class( though you can normally open a girl that is not shy) just so you could satisfy your ego?
correct?

[evilg67]

No. I think that she's really hot. The thing is, what opener do you use on someone who doesn't talk to anybody in that class. Even outside of the class would work.

[evilg67]

Can someone please help?

[DanZy]

You just talk to her, about anything. We're not here to tell you exactly how to do it, that's up to you

[smoob]

Don't over-complicate the opener. Tell her she seems shy and that you don't see her talking a lot (or something about her being shy).

[evilg67]

And then what? I really believe someone should make an entire thread on this, a guide if you will. Not just because of me, but because it's just one of those things that seems to fall into the cracks of game. Girls that talk are easy to pick up, and whatever, but what about shy girls?

[Icy]

Dec 18, 2012 19:09:22 GMT -5 evilg67 said:

And then what? I really believe someone should make an entire thread on this, a guide if you will. Not just because of me, but because it's just one of those things that seems to fall into the cracks of game. Girls that talk are easy to pick up, and whatever, but what about shy girls?

Hahaha dude you're overthinking this, its not the opener that makes the interaction but what you follow it with is. Talk to her about anything you want and be direct and tell her you think she's cute or that you want her babies, we're not going to put words into your mouth because we don't know you and how you are.

BTW there is a beginners guide at the HSG website. But shy girls are not a completely different style of game. I know from experience that shy girls are only shy because they don't know you and she's probably not shy if she's comfortable with you, so build comfort while making your intentions clear.

Gaming a less talkative girl takes a bit slower amount of time because you gotta remember that you should ask her 100000 questions as an excuse to talk to her. Read Sketch's article in the HSG website on "How to keep a conversation going with a girl" to help.

Don't obsess over this girl
Just relax bro

[evilg67]

I know that I would start to do some assumption stacking, but I guess what I want to know is I can't just go there and say, "Excuse me, can I say something really quickly...". You ask her about schoolwork, she gives a short answer. Just give me an example at least.

[Victorious]

In my experience with the shy ones it's just plow, plow, plow..I normally view their shyness as an opportunity to tease em (aw how cute, you're shy)..you'll have to talk more at first but once you hook a 'shy' girl you'll realize most of em aren't shy, they just don't talk to people that they don't know. As for the HB, use her ass to get the shy girl into a conversation (have a conversation with HB8 and bring HB9 in with an opinion opener or something).

Don't overthink it and make sure you kino constantly (hard in high school but make it work), view the shyness as a shit test and go at it man....also next time post shit like this in the specific help forum.

[Sloth]

ite kid, so you really gotta engage her. Problem is everything and anything you're planing on saying to this girl, past, future and present, has been or would have been outcome dependent. You'd of been saying anything you could just cause you really want a good response. This is pretty easy for girls to pick up on, and probably attributes to her shyness.
that's just something to think about, so before you say anything to her, do it for yourself, not just cause you really want to pull her.

[enzo123]

In the classroom? Too easy! I'm not gonna scorn you for not doing this or that, I'm just going to give you an answer.

Make a comment about the teacher.

Just say to her "Damn this teacher really gets on my nerves, I really hate when he (insert something you don't like that she can agree on)."

She'll respond "Oh yeah that bothers me too." or whatever.

Then just go on from there. After talking about the irrelevant things about the class, you can move onto personal questions about her. Find out what she's involved in or her interests. Then you can focus on those things, because she's more likely to open up and talk about things she's interested in since she's shy.

Break the touch barrier with her, have a smile, make her feel comfortable and you're good.

[JUMB0z]

dude you're making excuses, you wont get anywhere until you take some action
so you want this shy girl?
be direct
just comment on something, walk her to her next class and talk to her, don't look for reaction just talk about something you're interested in
do this 3 times and she will: a) tell you to go fuck yourself
b) start talking to you
c) be awkwardly silent

situation a) you know you don't have business here-next girl please
situation b) you can now proceed and go to the next level
situation c) she's fucking shy, stop doing this and if you see it having an effect on her re-initiate the contact, otherwise don't bother