evilg67
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Post by evilg67 on Dec 17, 2012 21:38:53 GMT -5
I just started at a new school less than a year ago, and I have some buddies. They party, but they just think of me as someone who doesn't really want to go to them. They don't invite me, and I don't know how to get invited. Can someone tell me proven things you can say or do to get to invited?
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america
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Post by america on Dec 17, 2012 22:51:57 GMT -5
Step 1. Ask them what they're doing this weekend.
Step 2. "Friday night, we're going to ____________'s place to do ______________."
Step 3. "Oh, sounds cool. Mind if I come?"
Step 4. "Yeah, sure man. It's gonna be sick."
Step 5. Profit.
Put your ego aside and just ask them. At least in my group of friends (and most others that I know), we're glad to take on new people (unless it's more of a private event). I guess we kind of base whether we want to invite the person or not a lot on if we think they'll mesh well with the group. You'll mesh well with any group as long as you have a fun vibe. Everyone likes to have fun.
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Post by Sloth on Dec 18, 2012 6:20:09 GMT -5
you could always organise your own shit, like a party, and invite people - to show them that actually you do go to them.
you could even be like 'dudes i heard about a huge party going on this weekend, you guys wanna go?
There is no party but they don't need to know that, you can then tell them it got cancelled, but they'll remember the fact that you invited them.
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Post by NorwegianDJ on Dec 18, 2012 6:27:29 GMT -5
Why would they party with you? What value do you offer? How can you offer value? Fun vibes? Alcohol? Girls? Status? Car? etc
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america
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Post by america on Dec 18, 2012 21:08:59 GMT -5
you could always organise your own shit, like a party, and invite people - to show them that actually you do go to them. \ I don't know if it'd be such a great idea to host a party if you haven't been invited to any yet. Odds are, not many people would show up since they don't really see you as the party type. They'll think the party is lame, and your value will probably go down. And if you DO host a party, make sure there is plenty of alcohol and possibly other substances along with gratuitous amounts of bitches. That = value. |
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Post by Sloth on Dec 19, 2012 1:37:04 GMT -5
Just go project x on it  |
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Post by Victorious on Dec 19, 2012 1:52:38 GMT -5
Throwing a party isn't hard to do (I've done it before), but I feel like you have to already know the party crowd at LEAST somewhat to get them interested..the easiest way to do it in high school is talk to everyone in your class and start chillin with people. I remember in 11th grade I started hanging with this one kinda well-known guy and people would meet me like 'oooh so you're who so-and-so was hanging out with'. Parties aren't the only way to go, any social event (movies, trips to restaurants, bowling, trips to the mall, football games) would work for what you're trying to do..don't hone in on strictly parties because if your high school was anything like mine, there was only a good one maybe once or twice a month tops.
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pipe1x
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Post by pipe1x on Dec 20, 2012 0:33:53 GMT -5
Step 1. Ask them what they're doing this weekend. Step 2. "Friday night, we're going to ____________'s place to do ______________." Step 3. "Oh, sounds cool. Mind if I come?" Step 4. "Yeah, sure man. It's gonna be sick." Step 5. Profit. Wouldnt that be kinda needy? Its like your inviting yourself in |
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Post by Icy on Dec 20, 2012 15:27:54 GMT -5
Step 1. Ask them what they're doing this weekend. Step 2. "Friday night, we're going to ____________'s place to do ______________." Step 3. "Oh, sounds cool. Mind if I come?" Step 4. "Yeah, sure man. It's gonna be sick." Step 5. Profit. Wouldnt that be kinda needy? Its like your inviting yourself in It's not needy. Do you think your just gonna wait at home every night waiting for people to invite you out because you dont want to seem needy? I think thats a bit silly. The fact is that people usually wouldn't mind another person at a party or a get together if that person is chill or cool and not "socially retarded". It's like the phrase "the more the merrier" because if you can add to their fun, why the hell would they mind if you come. *This is an issue sometimes because if there is not a good boy/girl ratio, some guys are usually hesitant with inviting more guys. Just sayin' |
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america
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Post by america on Dec 20, 2012 20:51:17 GMT -5
Step 1. Ask them what they're doing this weekend. Step 2. "Friday night, we're going to ____________'s place to do ______________." Step 3. "Oh, sounds cool. Mind if I come?" Step 4. "Yeah, sure man. It's gonna be sick." Step 5. Profit. Wouldnt that be kinda needy? Its like your inviting yourself in No. As long as you don't bug them about it and talk about how fun the party's gonna be like every day, you won't come off as needy. They'll just think you're a guy that wants to chill. And they'll probably understand that you don't have a whole lot of people to hang out with since you just started at that school. |
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