Post by america on Dec 26, 2012 18:40:24 GMT -5
im new to this forum and have mainly registered because im in a real confused state! im in need of help from someone who has more experience than me with dealing with secondary school girls. In fact in this case shes in sixth form.
Let me get into my dilemma, this girl is beautiful. Hands down the most gorgeous in HER year (im in year 11, shes in year 12). Recently, as ive grown more socially accustomed, i have been getting more attention from people, making more friends and all sorts. Going about my business, talking to a group of girls in the year below, i see this beautiful girl just staring at me whilst standing in a group of girls. I instantaneously stare at her back then lose composure because she is that much of a 10.
Stop right there. She's not a 10. 10's do not reside in high school. She's probably not even that great. You've pulled one of the most classic mistakes we see with new guys on these forums. You put her on a pedestal. Take a step back and think of all of her imperfections. Imagine her picking a giant booger and eating it. You can't have the mindset that she's a great catch, and you definitely cannot think she is above you in any way, shape, or form.
Now for the approach: Honestly, Facebook seems to be your only option now (unless you feel like waiting until school stars back up. From the sound of it, you don't really have a lot of attraction to lose with her at the moment). So if you wish to approach through Facebook, then just do it. Don't be a pussy. Go in to it with this mindset: "Whether I get her number or not is irrelevant. I'm a fucking man for even having the balls to do it." You can't be outcome dependent or you will never get anywhere with this girl. Approach her because you feel like approaching her; don't do it because she's a "10" and you "have to get with her".
