Post by ihop on Jan 8, 2013 20:21:35 GMT -5
Heeeey! Hows it goin?
Question,
in high school, who generally gets the most girls?
Generally its the guys who play sports. Most of the time, they don't have to do anything to get girls because the girls just flock to them
Im sure you've realized this before, so why are these girls seemingly more attracted to the guys who play sports?
Because you always hear their name mentioned in the announcements, people are always talking about them, and the usually in groups when socializing. The girls are always hearing about these guys and hearing about them on announcements, they might even go to these guys games, they hear other girls talking about these guy. So its natural for a girl to think "oh this guy must be the alpha male" and they're going to want him. Same goes for any other guy that has social proof like that.
So when these guys do talk to a girl, the girl is going to be attracted right off the bat because she feels like she knows him already. This is what you call a status approach. Its whenever a girl already knows about a guy or has her attention on a guy before he approaches.
That is what most of high school is based off of. Its actually sad and funny at the same time. Sad because I have to put in extra work sometimes but funny when you see how these girls act towards guys with status. I used to get blown off for the higher status dudes back in the day which sucked. But ive also seen girls talk complete shit about a guy with status but when he walks up to them: "oh, hi!"
The Cold Approach
What we do; approach girls that we don't know that don't know anything thing about us. The main point I want to get across is that when you see all these other guys with girls on them and shit, don't get discouraged. When youre talking to a girl, and she doesn't seem to like you as much as those other guys, don't get discouraged. She just hasn't had enough time to know you for that long. She hasn't had time to fully experience YOU.
When girls are immediately attracted to guys that are mentioned on the announcements and talked about by other girls its because they feel like they already know the guy. And when the girl gets know you and gets the vibe of you, she will be attracted just the same
On the flipside, you definitely should be building up your status. But in a natural and cool way, not a "ohh I need status so I can get girls" kind of way. Make new friends, talk to everybody, yell loudly for all people to hear you, make friends with girls, create fun when socializing. That's how you be cool and gain status. And when you do that, plus the power of cold approaching = big pimpin. Girls notice you, and you can have a cool interaction right off the bat
Cheers,
Ihop
Question,
in high school, who generally gets the most girls?
Generally its the guys who play sports. Most of the time, they don't have to do anything to get girls because the girls just flock to them
Im sure you've realized this before, so why are these girls seemingly more attracted to the guys who play sports?
Because you always hear their name mentioned in the announcements, people are always talking about them, and the usually in groups when socializing. The girls are always hearing about these guys and hearing about them on announcements, they might even go to these guys games, they hear other girls talking about these guy. So its natural for a girl to think "oh this guy must be the alpha male" and they're going to want him. Same goes for any other guy that has social proof like that.
So when these guys do talk to a girl, the girl is going to be attracted right off the bat because she feels like she knows him already. This is what you call a status approach. Its whenever a girl already knows about a guy or has her attention on a guy before he approaches.
That is what most of high school is based off of. Its actually sad and funny at the same time. Sad because I have to put in extra work sometimes but funny when you see how these girls act towards guys with status. I used to get blown off for the higher status dudes back in the day which sucked. But ive also seen girls talk complete shit about a guy with status but when he walks up to them: "oh, hi!"
The Cold Approach
What we do; approach girls that we don't know that don't know anything thing about us. The main point I want to get across is that when you see all these other guys with girls on them and shit, don't get discouraged. When youre talking to a girl, and she doesn't seem to like you as much as those other guys, don't get discouraged. She just hasn't had enough time to know you for that long. She hasn't had time to fully experience YOU.
When girls are immediately attracted to guys that are mentioned on the announcements and talked about by other girls its because they feel like they already know the guy. And when the girl gets know you and gets the vibe of you, she will be attracted just the same
On the flipside, you definitely should be building up your status. But in a natural and cool way, not a "ohh I need status so I can get girls" kind of way. Make new friends, talk to everybody, yell loudly for all people to hear you, make friends with girls, create fun when socializing. That's how you be cool and gain status. And when you do that, plus the power of cold approaching = big pimpin. Girls notice you, and you can have a cool interaction right off the bat
Cheers,
Ihop
