Post by ihop on Apr 4, 2013 20:02:02 GMT -5
Hey! Hows it going?
As we all know there is a lot of information on pickup on here and a lot of websites. Cool, cool, but if you're not careful, it's a trap that will suck you down and crush your game.
Information is definitely good, but I would suggest that when practicing your game you need as little as possible. If you're like me, you couldn't stop reading this shit, watching this shit, soaking up all the information so that you can get good fast. It inspired you to go out and make approaches and take all kinds of action BUT, if not manage properly it can not only be a crutch, as in you need to read information before you go out, but also a hindrance, as in you can't game properly because you're always judging you're game based on the information you read.
To prevent this form happening, it's way better to just fucking go and game straight even if you don't know what to do and just keep on hitting up the approaches, keep on trying to escalate, KEEP GAMING and being sociable. When you do this, you fucking fall in love with you're skills. The big problem when some people read information, they're not doing shit and just taking in the information so they have no confidence in their game and instead the confidence is in the fucking advice. I know, ive done this before. Don't be a spectator. Build up your game that you already have now to the point where you're confident in it and you actually like yourself when talking to a girl. And then you can go take a little advice. A LITTLE. So that you incorporate that into YOUR game and make it your own. When you feel as if the information is so much better than what you were doing, that's a sign you need to stop and go out and game some bitches.
The reason for rigidness when you're gaming a girl is because you feel as if you're supposed to be doing something better but what you're doing in the moment isn't aligned with that. Look at it this way, if your driving in a car, and the car skids and flips over and your upside down, are you going to fucking hustle and get out of that car or are you going to analyze how to effectively get out of the car so that you slide through with the least resistance, and the perfect timing so that it explodes as your walking away looking like a badass? most likely, you would just get out of the fucking car.....
So with that said to sum it all up: Go out and game girls, game girls, game girls, till you LOVE your game and take in information sparingly so that you still love your game but also have a little something to shake it up
Peace,
ihop
As we all know there is a lot of information on pickup on here and a lot of websites. Cool, cool, but if you're not careful, it's a trap that will suck you down and crush your game.
Information is definitely good, but I would suggest that when practicing your game you need as little as possible. If you're like me, you couldn't stop reading this shit, watching this shit, soaking up all the information so that you can get good fast. It inspired you to go out and make approaches and take all kinds of action BUT, if not manage properly it can not only be a crutch, as in you need to read information before you go out, but also a hindrance, as in you can't game properly because you're always judging you're game based on the information you read.
To prevent this form happening, it's way better to just fucking go and game straight even if you don't know what to do and just keep on hitting up the approaches, keep on trying to escalate, KEEP GAMING and being sociable. When you do this, you fucking fall in love with you're skills. The big problem when some people read information, they're not doing shit and just taking in the information so they have no confidence in their game and instead the confidence is in the fucking advice. I know, ive done this before. Don't be a spectator. Build up your game that you already have now to the point where you're confident in it and you actually like yourself when talking to a girl. And then you can go take a little advice. A LITTLE. So that you incorporate that into YOUR game and make it your own. When you feel as if the information is so much better than what you were doing, that's a sign you need to stop and go out and game some bitches.
The reason for rigidness when you're gaming a girl is because you feel as if you're supposed to be doing something better but what you're doing in the moment isn't aligned with that. Look at it this way, if your driving in a car, and the car skids and flips over and your upside down, are you going to fucking hustle and get out of that car or are you going to analyze how to effectively get out of the car so that you slide through with the least resistance, and the perfect timing so that it explodes as your walking away looking like a badass? most likely, you would just get out of the fucking car.....
So with that said to sum it all up: Go out and game girls, game girls, game girls, till you LOVE your game and take in information sparingly so that you still love your game but also have a little something to shake it up
Peace,
ihop
