Choosing a High School?

[derekk]

I'm in eighth grade. It's getting towards the end of the year, and I am choosing which high school I want to attend.

Background info: I go to a tiny private middle school with 28 eighth graders, not one attractive girl within the school. All of my friends there are rich, all-talk, sports, video-game pussies. All they care about is baseball and video games.
Luckily, with self help, I have become a pimp. I got in shape, got an eight pack, started boxing, started approaching girls by myself, and started reading self help books. It just sucks having only a couple of old friends I can visit each weekend in my neighborhood.

Anyways, I have two choices for high school.
1. Huge ass public school. Tons of ghetto kids, I have no idea what the selection for girls is like, but it's probably not good. On the flip side, I would go to all AP classes, and I'd probably meet more dudes who are willing to hang out, have parties, etc. It's got way more sports and classes. I wouldn't be with the annoying douchebags from the school I'm at right now. It would be a completely new start. Plus, it would be a lot cheaper for my family. We're kind of in a ditch, but they are still willing to pay for me to go to the private school if I choose to.

2. Small private school. Tight community. It has a few cool guys, I know most of them that go there, but they live far away. All my friends from the school I am going to right now are going there too. The school has some DIME-PIECE girls there, I could imagine it would be super easy to bang them, especially since a lot of guys there are chodes. If I wanted to get real recognition/scholarships for sports, I would have to go there. The school is small enough so that they honestly need every guy they can get to fill up their sports teams, so it could be your first time playing and you'd be a starter for most sports. Plus, I got super jacked so I would like to try football. If I went there, I would be a complete pimp/mega popular. Lots of people there already know me there. The school has lots of cool events like movie nights at the school, lots of home games, field days. It also has a really nice campus. The classes are obviously a lot harder though, more homework. Nobody will be having parties. Also, this school does not have nearly as much electives or sports. I'd really want to do track, but it doesnt have it.

So, advice?


Edit: I just thought I'd add:
If I went to the public school, chances are I'd have a better life outside of school, be able to get college credit, and have way more class options. I really want to party a lot and have an abundance of friends who I can hang out with.

If I went to the private school, I'd have a better life in school and in sports. Plus, some of the girls there are quality chicks. And still, lots of events, an awesome campus, and small community is still cool to me.

[Obelish]

Hey man.

I've been in your situation, for the most part; I went to a small private Catholic school where there were about 44 kids in the whole grade. I'm not as athletic and shit as you, I'll tell you that now, but take it from me, as you get into high school you'll realize that things usually don't just play out the way you plan for them to. I mean, it might seem like you'll end up a pimp now, but don't head into it with only that in mind, don't expect to not have to work a bit.

That being said, I'd go with the public school. Yeah, "ghetto" kids can get real annoying, but so can uptight, piece of shit rich kids (which you know by now); not only that, some private's tend to have some Malibu's Most Wanted shit going on and have wannabe ghetto kids. Let me tell you now though, I actually go to a private school, I'm just telling you to do otherwise because academically it's really the same shit, just needlessly more expensive, and hanging out with people is gonna be hard because people live so far and I imagine it's gonna be a while before you can legally drive. The only reason I'm still there is because I don't wanna re-adjust to shit.

Another thing, every school has its share of ugly girls and girls that live up to your standards (which are hopefully reasonable, but that's you). The public school is probably gonna have a lot more kids if it's like where I live, so I wouldn't assume you won't have much options. Also, since it's local, you'll probably have much more parties to go to and more time and places to hang out.

[graves]

Its time for a new start brother. Choose the public school. Both schools will have their pro's and con's but the reason I am saying public school is because you have already probably mastered the small community social life now its time to jump into the bigger pond. I go to a ghetto public school and I have to deal with 1000+ kids who half of them hate each other, fights break out every day (4 when the mayor came), ugly girls and worst of all wannabe douce bag guys. However I am in my third year and I have picked up so much invaluable advice from the school, I have learned so much from those ghetto kids and one of my favorites; those ''ghetto'' kids have got to be some of the funniest guys you will ever meet. Black culture looks shitty as hell on the outside (gangster mentality, etc..) however when you break through the surface and hit the core, its simply nothing you have ever experienced before. Meet new people, ditch the old crowd and most of all stand out. Something thats hard to do in a small community and small school.

[Logic]

I have never gone to private school but I know kids who do and they say it is shitty and a lot of work.

It will take a lot more for public school to get boring. Parties are fun as fuck so you are going to want that. Those same dime pieces in private school will get old after 4 years. Sports are fun though. Public school is easy on your parents. The choice is yours but I would reccomend public school

One tip for highschool though:

It will inevitably be cliquely and there is really nothing you can do about that. So take advantage of that. Be the first to form a clique with the 4-10 guys you relate to most and hang out with them every weekend. People will want to be apart of such a tight group of people. You will quickly gain value as a group and individuals.. Other than that just be a friend to everyone.

[derekk]

Dec 9, 2013 22:18:57 GMT -5 graves said:

Its time for a new start brother. Choose the public school. Both schools will have their pro's and con's but the reason I am saying public school is because you have already probably mastered the small community social life now its time to jump into the bigger pond. I go to a ghetto public school and I have to deal with 1000+ kids who half of them hate each other, fights break out every day (4 when the mayor came), ugly girls and worst of all wannabe douce bag guys. However I am in my third year and I have picked up so much invaluable advice from the school, I have learned so much from those ghetto kids and one of my favorites; those ''ghetto'' kids have got to be some of the funniest guys you will ever meet. Black culture looks shitty as hell on the outside (gangster mentality, etc..) however when you break through the surface and hit the core, its simply nothing you have ever experienced before. Meet new people, ditch the old crowd and most of all stand out. Something thats hard to do in a small community and small school.

Old thread guys, lol.


nonetheless, good advice for future members to read. I like the open mindedness too, graves. I'm definitely realizing the same thing about the ghetto kids.



edit: btw accidently took some "karma" from you, misclicked