Post by dutchguy on May 20, 2013 14:21:31 GMT -5
Hi all!
My name is Jonathan, I'm 16 years old and I live in the Netherlands.
I recently found a link to these forums somewhere, and I was reading through some of the posts. I got really excited, since there were all these tips and tricks on how to get laid and stuff.
The problem with me is, I'm not really the best looking guy, and I'm a little bit fat (not very fat just a little belly fat) and suffer from acne. I'm a bit socially awkward with most people, especially girls. There are maybe 1 or 2 girls I am able to talk with...my nieces.. but that's family. They love you no matter what.
I want to befriend more people, including girls, but people always seem to hate me for some reason. It's kinda depressing when you try to be a nice guy, and they look at you like ''Go away you pervert.''
Let me tell you guys a little bit about myself so you may understand why I'm not very good with people. I live in a medium village. When I was in elementary, I was bullied a lot (kids can be very cruel). So when I had to go to high school, I chose to go to the city, instead of the high school in the village, so I wouldn't run into any of those assf*cks. All went well and I tried to make new friends, but I didn't succeed very well. I ended up with like, 2 friends. During the first of five years I still tried, but still no success. In the second year, the bullying began again. I got a little depressed. After all I tried, they still hated me. There had to be something I had done wrong, right?
But at the end of the second year I was like: ''No more of this shit, not after all those years.'' , so I went to a teacher and asked if he could go talk to the bullies. After that it stopped. I was very relieved.
In the third year, we got some 'new' kids, at least, they were new for the people of my school. I, however, already knew 2 of them. One was an friend of mine from elementary...the other one a bully. The friend had changed, wasn't so friendly anymore. The bully just continued from where he had stopped. For example, they both destroyed my work in tech class several times.
Now, in the fourth year, the bully changed schools because of his bad grades, and the other one changed his attitude after we got into a fight (which I lost in an embarrassing way). I think he kinda respected me for doing something. My grades are, in contrast to
last years, sky high.
It is at this moment, that I want to change myself. Lose the fat, be happier, befriend more people and most of all, get the guts the talk to a girl I have a crush on(she's really pretty but also very shy, love girls like that because they are mostly very sweet and beasts in bed ;D).
I hope you guys here can advise me things to do, send links etc.
Thx for reading all of this, I know it is a lot.
Greetz,
Jonathan
My name is Jonathan, I'm 16 years old and I live in the Netherlands.
I recently found a link to these forums somewhere, and I was reading through some of the posts. I got really excited, since there were all these tips and tricks on how to get laid and stuff.
The problem with me is, I'm not really the best looking guy, and I'm a little bit fat (not very fat just a little belly fat) and suffer from acne. I'm a bit socially awkward with most people, especially girls. There are maybe 1 or 2 girls I am able to talk with...my nieces.. but that's family. They love you no matter what.
I want to befriend more people, including girls, but people always seem to hate me for some reason. It's kinda depressing when you try to be a nice guy, and they look at you like ''Go away you pervert.''
Let me tell you guys a little bit about myself so you may understand why I'm not very good with people. I live in a medium village. When I was in elementary, I was bullied a lot (kids can be very cruel). So when I had to go to high school, I chose to go to the city, instead of the high school in the village, so I wouldn't run into any of those assf*cks. All went well and I tried to make new friends, but I didn't succeed very well. I ended up with like, 2 friends. During the first of five years I still tried, but still no success. In the second year, the bullying began again. I got a little depressed. After all I tried, they still hated me. There had to be something I had done wrong, right?
But at the end of the second year I was like: ''No more of this shit, not after all those years.'' , so I went to a teacher and asked if he could go talk to the bullies. After that it stopped. I was very relieved.
In the third year, we got some 'new' kids, at least, they were new for the people of my school. I, however, already knew 2 of them. One was an friend of mine from elementary...the other one a bully. The friend had changed, wasn't so friendly anymore. The bully just continued from where he had stopped. For example, they both destroyed my work in tech class several times.
Now, in the fourth year, the bully changed schools because of his bad grades, and the other one changed his attitude after we got into a fight (which I lost in an embarrassing way). I think he kinda respected me for doing something. My grades are, in contrast to
last years, sky high.
It is at this moment, that I want to change myself. Lose the fat, be happier, befriend more people and most of all, get the guts the talk to a girl I have a crush on(she's really pretty but also very shy, love girls like that because they are mostly very sweet and beasts in bed ;D).
I hope you guys here can advise me things to do, send links etc.
Thx for reading all of this, I know it is a lot.
Greetz,
Jonathan
