Unpopluar to popular

[greeneday1]

Have any of the members of this forum gone from unpopular to popular I would love to hear them

[Sloth]

it's about not being dependant on the opinions of others to validate your ego. You have to just stop worrying about whether you're cool or not and start beign a genuinely nice guy, rather than someone who is nice just to please others.

The difference is you stand up for what u believe, dont give others shit, stay out of drama and always have a good time regardless of whether u might look silly to people who are shallow who will judge you.

There's a summary

[ihop]

If you mean going from loser who tried to be cool to someone who is cool on his own terms then yeah, I have. Like sloth said, it's not about others seeing you as cool, but you having the set person that you want to be and living up to that.

[Victorious]

You'll find most of the people who've actually learned on this forum

1. Couldn't give 2 fucks about popularity
2. Are genuinely nice, thus making them liked by many (definition of popularity)
3. Still couldn't give a fuck and a half about outside validation

[NorwegianDJ]

highschool-game.net/the-uniqueness-of-high-school/

[gentleman_bandit]

Well, I did. I had to build it piece by piece, literally by talking and making friends with everyone I could find. it fucking sucks at first but then school becomes awesome when you know a lot of people, and are liked by many.

[nathi]

If that's all it takes then I'm in but please ellaborate on ur steps

[swatt]

This is kind of an old thread and I doubt these people will respond. Ask your question on specific help and we can better answer it

[amarok]

Better yet, don't post on specific help because the question "how do I become popular" is not specific help haha. Read the social circle game and confidence and happiness boards.

[nathi]

Lol,thanx I'm a beginner at this

[eddie8171111]

Just think about this: In twenty years are you going to wish that more people liked you or are you going to wish that you lived your life the way you wanted to live it and did what you wanted to do? I think most people would answer with the second answer. The key to life is to just do what makes you happy and not worry about what other people say/think/do. Like many things, when you stop giving a shit things start to just fall in to place naturally. A woman will be more attracted to a man who does what he wants and doesn't care what others think than a man who lives his life constantly trying to please everybody. In the end you just have to have the balls to do your own thing and not give a fuck about what others think. As long as your not hurting anybody else just do your own thing, have confidence in yourself, and things will fall into place, including the women that you want.

[suavepua]

Okay man. All this people that say being cool doesn't matter are either

1. Cool guys who don't know what they have (I was one of them)

2. Uncool guys who are just protecting their ego by saying it doesn't matter.

But it's the #1 thing that matters. That's the whole idea of dhv. You can't dhv a girl in highschool. Your value is already set by your level of popularity.

The advice given above by other dudes is right. Be whatever you think is cool, don't worry what other people think of you. Believe your awesome and others will.


That's not good enough.... I went out on the streets for about a year and even with my new gained abilities I couldn't get any stupid little 16 year old girl in my class... Out on the streets those would be sure closes.....

Anyway.... If you hang out with the fucking losers then no women will ever want anything to do with you. She's rather fuck the captain of the football team lol.

The classiest woman will fuck a stranger.... Within 5 seconds she will fuck a stranger. If this stranger has enough value. Example:

1. Rock star
2. Movie star
Etc

So what you wanna do is locate the social circle of the popular people. Usually the one with all the hot girls.

And then you need to infiltrate that group. And BOOOOOOOMMM!! Your popular.


The only thing you need is awesome social skills.... Be nice funny cocky and high value and theill accept you. Then the women will be available for you to game them.

After your in the popular group you can follow simple PUA tactics to get any of them

[Adam]

^O.o To be honest after reading this I am quite certain that it's not your popularity that is stopping you from meeting girls (notice how i said meeting and not getting) but you're overall mindset

[Captain Charisma]

Let me give you and answer.. The real answer. You want to be popular? you've got to put the energy into it trust me.But the real secret in all this, You give value, but you never take it. If i come to chill with my friends i always give value, weather its telling a good story, organizing a game of footbal (by briging the football) I get invited to a shitload of parties so I always buy a pack of beers or il bring a bag of ku$h, or even just bringing the music I'm always giving. And hang out with guys who've got their shit together, sometimes you'll notice those are the guys with girlfriends, Build your social circle, always meet with a handshake and and exchange of names. Lastly work on yourself! your body, your mind, your voice your attitude your habits always improving and striving to be better tomorrow than you were today? Then you wil pull everyone into your reality and people will start to follow you, Thats why the popular kids allways have a group of followers, we create our own realities and thus other people are drawn to us. The more you improve the higher quality friends and girlfriends flock into your life.

If yall think i should write and article about it just like this post or Inbox me

-Rambo