nebula
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Post by nebula on Jun 12, 2013 15:55:09 GMT -5
I honestly don't understand my school. Every guy in my grade is either a virgin or has sex with unattractive girls, because the hot girls in my grade insist on only having anything to do with guys who are older, ripped, or from other schools. There is a guy one year older than me who literally walks around naming all of the girls he has had sex with, and more and more keep coming to him. Why? Because he has muscles on top of muscles and that's the only thing girls care about in my school. Then, the girls go to other schools and hang out with the guys there because their friends do it and they have to follow each others trends. So basically, I don't understand what the hell I'm supposed to do. When I go to other schools, getting girls is so much easier. Does anyone else have a similar situation that they were able to overcome somehow?
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Post by Victorious on Jun 12, 2013 23:41:57 GMT -5
With the mindset you're in, it's never gonna change. In your head it's like "if I don't have bigass muscles then I can't get any girl at my school". Your actions and your whole persona is going to reflect that, and in turn you definitely won't succeed.
Most of the times girls are attracted to things like that: good looks, money, social status, etc.. so if you have those of course it's gonna be easier. Doesn't mean you can't do it though, focus on your game and keep pushing forward to guarantee a change in your results.
Also, your school is not the only one in the area (obviously). Look into linking up with people from other schools, in high school I knew people from high schools all around mine and it worked out in my favor. The world is bigger than where you are (location, school, etc..), remember that.
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freshi3
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Registered: Jun 24, 2010 15:26:11 GMT -5
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Post by freshi3 on Jun 13, 2013 0:42:59 GMT -5
I've seen poor wimps who have all the ladies flocking to them...to say you need those things is inaccurate.
What you can do though is display higher value than those other guys by the way you carry yourself (your beliefs). If you're more fun, chill, and witty than those other guys they will actually flock to you. Yes, the guys...and in turn the girls will also come. If there's a notable difference in fun they're having when you're around they're going to want to keep you there.
This is what giving value is all about, it's the same value the girls are trying to get from other guys except in different ways. The fun will always overpower all the other 'high value' bullshit.
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Post by Sketch on Jun 13, 2013 16:39:06 GMT -5
The reason girls keep flocking to that guys is because he's high value. He fucks all these chicks and doesn't give a shit if everyone else knows about it and the girls won't mind that either because if they've fucked him, other girls and guys will think they're high value too.
You see, girls are value seekers. They really don't care how bad someone looks or how poor he is if his value is sky high. They really fucking couldn't give a damn.
A few solutions to your problem:
1. You man up and start acting like the alpha male around there and get your value up. We have plenty of information on how to do that on our main websites.
2. You say that all the girls in your year want older guys...did you ever think that the girls in lower years will want older guys too? Guys like you. Well I can bet you that they probably do.
3. Don't rely on girls in school to get laid. I personally didn't like hooking up with girls from my school because it was usually too much hassle than it was worth what with everyone wanting to poke their noses in your business. So go out there, day game some chicks, expand your social circle to outside of your school, create a whole new one outside your school. That way you can actually pick the people you want to be around rather than forced to choose from people at school.
4. Befriend this poon slayer and you'll soon be seen as high value too.
5. Prostitutes. That's always an option.
- Sketch
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