amazingelf
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Post by amazingelf on Jul 30, 2013 23:17:07 GMT -5
OK guys, a bit of an unusual question I think. I've been dating my girlfriend for about 3 months now and we're both pretty into each other. We're also both (as far as I know, haven't actually asked her) virgins. She's a very moderate muslim, but does a lot of stuff that is against her religion like never praying and drinking alcohol every now and then. I'm feeling like it's about time to have sex, but I'm unsure as to whether I'll get the best results by just going for it one day, or discussing the possibility with her first. I think if she wasn't religious I would just go for it, but I know sex before marriage isn't at all a muslim thing, and I don't want to completely turn her off me by trying to do something she's not going to be comfortable with as I really like this chick. So basically do I just keep physically escalating until we have sex or should we have a civilized conversation about it first? Thanks guys  |
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Post by Snow.za on Jul 31, 2013 0:08:19 GMT -5
I think that because of all the religious aspects involved, it may be offensive to just try escalate to it one night. If she wasn't relig then like you said, you could just go for it one night. But it sounds like you should speak to her about it first. Or just take a condom out your pocket, and be like "So, how about it then?" - depending on the situation  |
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amazingelf
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Post by amazingelf on Jul 31, 2013 12:52:02 GMT -5
Ok, thanks Snow. That was pretty much my thoughts too, just wanted to get a second opinion. |
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Post by Victorious on Jul 31, 2013 21:41:23 GMT -5
Normally you should have covered that before you even started dating, but since you haven't I'd personally say escalate to other things such as a second or third base and see how that goes. One thing you wanna ask yourself as well is are you willing to wait if she's not down with that?
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amazingelf
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Post by amazingelf on Jul 31, 2013 23:27:04 GMT -5
Covered that before I started dating?? So you mean I should have asked her if she was DTF before asking her out?? That seems a little strange... We've had some pretty intense make out sessions, in which I've touched her boobs/ass, but she hasn't touched me in any "private areas". I'd be down for waiting for a bit, but if she's dead against sex until marriage then I'll be out of there. Thanks Victorious.
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Post by Victorious on Aug 1, 2013 12:19:05 GMT -5
No problem man, and finding out if she's a virgin isn't some 'holy thing' that she'd have been scared to tell you. I've asked countless die-hard Christian girls if they were virgins and they just told me yeah, if you don't view it as a big deal then it won't be and vice versa.
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Post by Sloth on Aug 1, 2013 12:19:36 GMT -5
if i want a girl to touch my dong ill grab her hand and put it down there. If she pulls away thats fine, but i want to make sure it's not that she doesn't want to but that she might be shy, in which case i speed things up.
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amazingelf
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Post by amazingelf on Aug 1, 2013 19:06:58 GMT -5
Alright, thanks guys I'll keep y'all posted. |
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