Post by hutta on Aug 23, 2013 11:38:33 GMT -5
The only pua dude i knew in highschool moved in to the last year of school. He joined the soccer team and converted most of his teammates to pua. Unfortunately, all they did was talk about the lines and the tactics. They never had the balls to use it. One thing he said that stuck with me was "all dudes who go into pua have a story behind it". I guess thats true considering u need quite a lot of willpower to make such drastic changes, so heres mine.
I was addicted to games ever since i could remember. Bad parenting i guess. My old school had only about 10-20 kids in the whole grade so i was always in a comfortable situation, no needing to meet new people. I never really thought of meeting people outside my school either. I made little to no effort to connect with my peers outside of school. I would have crushes on girls and do nothing about it. Except become an orbitor doing nice things, hoping they will make the first move.
This changed for me when i moved in 8th grade to a school where there were 200 people in my grade. Huge change. I came in shy as a mofo, not really talking to many people except the thai people who i felt i needed to be with because i "belong". I had 2 good friends, one in the thai group and one who was the star athlete of the school, good looks, half asian, buff as shit. Guys wanted to be him and girls wanted to be with him. My story revolves around me him and this korean girl i had a crush on.
I still shake my head at how i tried to connect with her. Helping her with her homework, being nice and shit. All the while, my natural friend kept busting her balls, sometimes pissing her off, being the spectacle of the class. I thought he was blowing himself out. Until they announced that they had started dating in 9th grade. I was pissed. I knew there was something wrong, with my views, my approach to life, my lifestyle.
One lonely night, i googled how to hit on girls and my journey in pua began there. Luckily i found christian hudson who taught mostly natural game on inner confidence. I worked heavily in that area and slacked off when i ran into mystery method. Holy shit that was like magic to me. I remember staying up late reading up on all his techniques and lines. It was like a shortcut. Sadly, i got really negative responses when i tried them. I tried some on friends and was so incongruent that they would ask if i was still me. Nonetheless i was unfazed and kept researching.
Only until senior year started and 2 years into pua that i dropped most of the gimmicks and relied on myself. (started relying on alcohol first tho). Got a ton of good friends because i could be myself more and that really attracts people, and my first girlfriend, ah she was beautiful.
Long story short, im single now for a couple months and want to drop the pua shit thats still latched to my thinking process and become natural, do whatever the hell i want without shame or fear of embarrassment and be at peace spiritually. Im starting college in 2 days so im ready to keep pushing my limit and grow.
I was addicted to games ever since i could remember. Bad parenting i guess. My old school had only about 10-20 kids in the whole grade so i was always in a comfortable situation, no needing to meet new people. I never really thought of meeting people outside my school either. I made little to no effort to connect with my peers outside of school. I would have crushes on girls and do nothing about it. Except become an orbitor doing nice things, hoping they will make the first move.
This changed for me when i moved in 8th grade to a school where there were 200 people in my grade. Huge change. I came in shy as a mofo, not really talking to many people except the thai people who i felt i needed to be with because i "belong". I had 2 good friends, one in the thai group and one who was the star athlete of the school, good looks, half asian, buff as shit. Guys wanted to be him and girls wanted to be with him. My story revolves around me him and this korean girl i had a crush on.
I still shake my head at how i tried to connect with her. Helping her with her homework, being nice and shit. All the while, my natural friend kept busting her balls, sometimes pissing her off, being the spectacle of the class. I thought he was blowing himself out. Until they announced that they had started dating in 9th grade. I was pissed. I knew there was something wrong, with my views, my approach to life, my lifestyle.
One lonely night, i googled how to hit on girls and my journey in pua began there. Luckily i found christian hudson who taught mostly natural game on inner confidence. I worked heavily in that area and slacked off when i ran into mystery method. Holy shit that was like magic to me. I remember staying up late reading up on all his techniques and lines. It was like a shortcut. Sadly, i got really negative responses when i tried them. I tried some on friends and was so incongruent that they would ask if i was still me. Nonetheless i was unfazed and kept researching.
Only until senior year started and 2 years into pua that i dropped most of the gimmicks and relied on myself. (started relying on alcohol first tho). Got a ton of good friends because i could be myself more and that really attracts people, and my first girlfriend, ah she was beautiful.
Long story short, im single now for a couple months and want to drop the pua shit thats still latched to my thinking process and become natural, do whatever the hell i want without shame or fear of embarrassment and be at peace spiritually. Im starting college in 2 days so im ready to keep pushing my limit and grow.
