kjcad8989
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Registered: Aug 26, 2013 16:52:04 GMT -5
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Post by kjcad8989 on Aug 27, 2013 16:31:20 GMT -5
do u guys think its worth going through all the shit just wanting a one-night hookup with a girl in h.s. and not actually dating her? or would this be a better strategy for college? i just dont want to go through all the routines and sh*t and then tell her i'm interested in her but not in a relationship and if she says no (which im pretty sure most h.s. girls will say) ive just wasted all my time.
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Wheels
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Registered: Jul 9, 2012 18:52:58 GMT -5
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Post by Wheels on Aug 27, 2013 20:09:20 GMT -5
Hooking up with class mates isn't bad. But don't pull a girl and then throw her away if you will see everyday for the next few years.
I've hooked up with girls in my high school but I have a good friendship with them still. It helps you save face in the long run but also keeps the door open to do it again with her.
If your main goal is fucking one after the other, you are most likely going to run into social problems in your school.
Go for all the girls you want, but keep it fun and smart.
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Post by Sloth on Aug 28, 2013 6:37:34 GMT -5
i've done it plenty of times, once you'e slept with them they're still a human being with feelings, so why treat them any different. I always have a good time with the girls afterwards, sometimes it's just about a bit of pillow talk, other times it's grabbing some breakfast or having a bit of banter - it can even be just a few texts to let them know you didn't just use them for sex.
Look your morals are your morals, you do as many one night stands as you want, you may be sitting thinking cba to talk to them afterwards, but aside from being a nice thing to do it's actually the best thing to do, it means you can turn them into regular sex and stay uncommitted.
End of the day you decide when you're commited, so hook up with anyone and dont bring it up unless they ask, and if they ask just say you're not looking for anything serious but theyre lovely.
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