denni
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Post by denni on Sept 14, 2013 21:26:20 GMT -5
So I have a friend who is somewhat a dick, and he is always trying to hook me up with girls who i'm not interested in, and always trying to help me with my game when he is actually ruining and blowing my goals and plans out of proportion. Also he is always bothering me whenever he sees me talking to a girl, and ultimatly says i like her, and makes a big deal about it when it really isnt, which is EXTREMELY annoying. Ex. "ooooh you like her", or 'you should go out with her", he bothers me and will tell others things that arent true between the girl and me, which is soo annoying especially when i dont like the girl at all, and she isnt that attractive.
All this just makes me pissed, and ruins my game. Especially when hes in 2 of my classes, and i try my best to talk to everyone, especially those who i'm not interested in.
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shyguy
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Post by shyguy on Sept 14, 2013 22:45:29 GMT -5
I really hate fuckers like that. Never really figured out exactly how to get rid of them but they usually go away with time. You could try confronting the dude and telling him hes annoying as fuck and that he seriously needs to stop. Hell, you could try doing the same thing back to show him how irritating it is. Thats all i got for ya. On your rise up theres going to be aome guys tryna bring you down dont let it happen. Be the bigger man
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DanZy
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Post by DanZy on Sept 14, 2013 23:17:23 GMT -5
Yeah you need to tell him what he's doing
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Post by Sketch on Sept 15, 2013 4:53:18 GMT -5
These guys are annoying as fuck. But you can't let what he's doing bother you.
What you should do in this situation, which sounds retarded at first but hear me out, is never defend yourself.
"What?! Are you crazy Sketch? I'm just supposed to let this guy treat me that way?!"
Dude. I said hear me out.
When he says something like "oooo you like her" don't defend yourself and say "no way man, she's not my type" because he's just going to keep saying it, teasing and annoying the fuck out of you because that's what those guys do.
Instead, you should say something like "Yeah man I think she could be the one!". Saying shit like that is funny and it'll get him to stop bugging you over it. Trust me. I get it all the time even though I have a girlfriend and it's the best way to deal with it without coming off as hostile, because it will.
Although, sometimes a simple "shut the fuck up dude" and then carrying on as normal will also do the trick sometimes.
- sketch
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Post by Sloth on Sept 15, 2013 8:19:47 GMT -5
man when people pull that shit on me i just say yeah like sketch said, but i say shit like 'i love all girls of all shapes and sizes, spread the love brother'
go tell him what he's doing. Don't angrily confront him, just tell him to stop what he's doing because it's irritating.
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denni
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Post by denni on Sept 15, 2013 11:52:52 GMT -5
Thanks shyguy,danzy,sketch, and sloth for the help! I have school tommarow so if he does it again i will remember your advices!
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