so you guys say im crazy

[denni]

so you guys say tthat i should talk to everyone, even if im not getting anything from them. even girls no matter how ugly they are. Well i cant do it unless im getting something from them. is there something wrong with me? ever since pus i cant stop using people...and theres 3 girls who like me, but they are unnatractive and i dont like talking to them.

[derekk]

it's all your ego, just another road block that you have to cross. I've had to deal with the same thing as you, and I still have trouble with it sometimes. put your identity, status, reputation, etc. at risk and chat with them! It won't hurt. It'll only benefit you. Maybe one of them has some hot friends.

Another way besides telling yourself that you need to RISK your identity and reputation is to become a playful person; incorporate it into your personality. Just make sure you're actually able to be flirty and a little more meaningful when you're around girls that you want to attract, too much silly wont help. Just have fun when you're around those girls that are into you, they're actually fun to hang out with too, imo. I just make sure that I don't give the impression that i'd want anything serious/a relationship though.


watch p1,p2,p3 of these email responses, it might guide you.

[DanZy]

Dude you've got a disgusting mindset. You're only taking love from people, not giving it. You need to find a balance