austin
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Post by austin on Sept 23, 2013 16:06:53 GMT -5
When I was in middle school I was so much more out going talked to everyone never gave a fuck what people really thought of me. Dd what I wanted but as my freshman year approached, I started tightening up and now I pretty much talk to no girls cause I'm afrai if I talk to them they'll think (why is this weirdo talking to me). I still have this problem now I'm in my junior year and never ha a girlfriend, never got head, never even got my first kiss *getting depressed thinking bout it*.
My problem is i don know how to approach girls confidently, without thinking "why would she want to talk to me, what do I have that another guy doesn't have?" . Why would she want to fuck with me? The problem is I don't know how to shake that mentality I need to fast, I want to get girls but at the end of the day I HAVE NO CONFIDENCE. I need to shake this mentality.
I'm scared to go to parties, I'm scared to talk to girls scared to meet new people. Anyone got ANY ADVICE?
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derekk
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Post by derekk on Sept 23, 2013 18:07:40 GMT -5
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ihop
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Post by ihop on Sept 29, 2013 21:26:44 GMT -5
That's how i act when i'm high. Sketchy. lol Ask yourself, am "I scared to talk to girls or am I excited to talk to girls?". Because it sounds like the you're just excited. If you were scared it would mean that when you talk to girls you will feel bad about it. You have to see talking to girls, and meeting new people, and going as FUN.  Next don't think about talking to girls AT ALL. It's just something you have to do and thinking about it will make it so much harder. So don't think. Just try. And if you still can't, don't think bout it. |
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sribeast21
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Post by sribeast21 on Sept 30, 2013 20:12:42 GMT -5
LOL! Its funny cause I posted that. BTW, now Ive started talking to a couple of girls and its going well. Not as stressed and lifes good. need to start being scared and wasting opportunity though. Thats my one gripe of this 1.5 week purge. |
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derekk
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Post by derekk on Oct 1, 2013 15:14:29 GMT -5
LOL! Its funny cause I posted that. BTW, now Ive started talking to a couple of girls and its going well. Not as stressed and lifes good. need to start being scared and wasting opportunity though. Thats my one gripe of this 1.5 week purge. good man. just realize that there is nothing to stress over. We still have a COMPLETE school year left, there is no rush, no pressure. Same with outside of school. We're busy working, doing school work, playing sports. There is no time to worry about girls, and there is no need to. They're all really friendly anyways, so there is no reason that we need to practice or prepare to talk to them either (duh). |
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