Obelish
Active Member
Posts: 123
Registered: Dec 31, 2012 2:41:06 GMT -5
|
Post by Obelish on Sept 27, 2013 22:29:44 GMT -5
I've been doing okay for a guy in a new high school, I haven't been too shy and I've been pretty outgoing in class and shit. Still, one of my biggest problems lies in inviting people out to do shit; I keep telling myself I'll figure it out but I never seem to get the chance, or I'm just afraid of the outcome, like I'll get rejected, you know? With the latter, it's more like a "where do I go from here?" type of thing, because I don't wanna get rejected, not take the possible hint and then keep asking, but I guess that's just the risk in these things.
I wanted to ask people in class when around a weekend, because the people I get along best with are in my classes for the most part. The thing I need help with the most is how to ask for people's numbers (I still need to make a Twitter too, even though I kinda don't want too, it's just what most people use nowadays for some reason), and actually making them want to go. The last thing I wanna do is go to a new school and not hang out with a single person.
|
|
derekk
Extremely Active Member
Posts: 316
Registered: Feb 26, 2013 20:09:11 GMT -5
|
Post by derekk on Sept 28, 2013 9:29:14 GMT -5
For other guys, after I meet them, I just say "hey dude what's your number?" It isnt a big deal so dont treat it like it is.
For girls, just say "Hey let's stay in contact"
over the weekend, just text everyone and ask if they want to go to the mall or something. It's best if you get a couple people who you know for sure are coming, because if it's just you people probably wont go.
|
|
Obelish
Active Member
Posts: 123
Registered: Dec 31, 2012 2:41:06 GMT -5
|
Post by Obelish on Sept 29, 2013 19:05:40 GMT -5
For other guys, after I meet them, I just say "hey dude what's your number?" It isnt a big deal so dont treat it like it is. Yeah, I guess I never just up and made it casual because of fear. Kinda like AA, you know? For girls, just say "Hey let's stay in contact" over the weekend, just text everyone and ask if they want to go to the mall or something. It's best if you get a couple people who you know for sure are coming, because if it's just you people probably wont go. I like the idea of just keeping it simple, I guess the big part of it all is making sure I actually use the number, which I obviously am. Also, you're right, it's good to get an official group going first. Thanks a bunch.
|
|