Post by ihop on Sept 27, 2013 23:23:51 GMT -5
Hey guys, Im here back to expose what I wrote im my journals over my past four years in high school. Some of it might be useful, some of it might be weird lol buy yeah This was one of the entries I made.
Comfort
The point of the interaction wahere it feels like the two of you know each other well enough to hang out. Real rapport just being the real you and shes just being the real her.
There is no more social boudaries, she feels comfortable enough with you. Connection with the girl reenforces attraction and makes it easier to transition into escalating.
Ways to build comfort: Kino(the more you touch her, the more she is going to used to it), move her around the venue, instant date. Basically it is anything that makes the
both of you friends.
Connection. It comfort gets a girl to be able to be comfortable around you, CONNECTION is what gets a girl to be comfortable showing ATTRACTION towards you. With
connecton, the girl feels like the two of you share something soecial so she has no worry about comming on too strong because she knows you feel it too. It's what gets the girls
to chase you.
*As a side note, drama also gets the girls to chase you because it focuses in on that emotional pathway between the two of you and fires emotions down it that the girl just loves
and are drawn to. Your full expression of your full range of emotions, attracts the girl and makes her feel connected.
*A Key Kino Tip: My friend brandon uses kino to his advantage when he is with girls. He pusts his arm around them for extended amounts of time so that he and the girl both
pass the initial awkard moment of holding on too long. Also, he just puts himself in a close proximity to the girl so that she just gets used to him being there and she then is
just naturally drawn to him.
Here's a little story....
There once was a girl named Kyli. Kyli was a girl that every guy seemed to think was cute. She actually
possessed some charming qualities that could be found in an alpha male. Outgoing, going after what she wanted, embracing what she liked, and most important of all, going after
which ever guy she wanted. Now, she wasn't a hoe or anything, but went after what she wanted. Flirting with any guy she deemed merely attractive, listening intently to
whatever the guy said making him feel special. She would do things to push the male attraction buttons a little harder. She would try to hold the poor guy's hand, squeeze his
cheek, hug him for extra long, making the guy look like a total dog, but deep down he loved it. she did all these things tho make the guy think she liked him. she mad the guy
think that they had a CONNECTION. Now, what YOU need to do is do exactly what she did. I call it KG for "Kyli Game"
The KG Mini Game Set
Kyli(You): Hi(with smile)
Guy(Girl): Hi
Kyli: Can I teach you a handshake?
Guy: Okay
*Handshake
Kyli: You're my bestfriend now!
Guy: (*o*)
Kyli Leaves.......But then she comes back...*BOOM* Hug around the guy's side and she's all like "hey bestfriend!" and the guy is like "holy shit, she must like me!"
Kyli: I love you
Guy: I love you too ha ha
After some small talk, she tries to go for the holding hands. The guy is either going to accept it or reject it. Hand accepted: "OMG, we're getting married!"
hand rejected: (she acts shocked and walks away). Leaving the guy wanting more. The point is to keep push/pulling. It's like a roller coaster that goes up
and down it's the change in altitude, the change in emotional vibes, that gets her attracted to you.
So that's Kyli Game. Let me teach you the smile. 1. Eyes light up 2.Genuine smile slowly
Another way to create connection is to create the "you and me" vibe. The you and me vibe is where you say things like "we should totally go skydiving" or
"we're getting married". The "you and me" vibe is where you include the both of you interacting and she has her focus on you.
You and Me Vibe
-WE factor: we've got to go bowling, we're like cavemen on an adventure,we're awesome.
(also going somewhere with the girl, being alone with the girl, and experienceing something with the girl, tighten the connection)
-Kino: Arm around shoulder(what Brandon did), look her right in the fucking eyes(not creepily)
-Being in the moment:Your Being is speaking to her Being; you're not there to take, only to give; connection knowing
So yeah, this was about two years ago lol. The basic points of me telling the kyli story is to put you in the girl's shoes when she's being gamed. She always had positive emotions and always projected them onto the guy so much that he would feel them too. And when they both were on the same energy level, she would leave and go talk to another guy or something leaving the guy there attracted to her not knowing what to do.
As for connection, I view it as the two of you are friends. Imagine your best friend and how they treat you, now look at the girl as being so comfortable with you that she treats you the same way. It's pretty much the same vibe, it's just that when you and the girl are alone, you're going to stick your finger in her butt.
Yeah that's pretty much it. Idk if this was cool or not. If not, Im never posting again lmao
Stay Pimpin,
Ihop
Comfort
The point of the interaction wahere it feels like the two of you know each other well enough to hang out. Real rapport just being the real you and shes just being the real her.
There is no more social boudaries, she feels comfortable enough with you. Connection with the girl reenforces attraction and makes it easier to transition into escalating.
Ways to build comfort: Kino(the more you touch her, the more she is going to used to it), move her around the venue, instant date. Basically it is anything that makes the
both of you friends.
Connection. It comfort gets a girl to be able to be comfortable around you, CONNECTION is what gets a girl to be comfortable showing ATTRACTION towards you. With
connecton, the girl feels like the two of you share something soecial so she has no worry about comming on too strong because she knows you feel it too. It's what gets the girls
to chase you.
*As a side note, drama also gets the girls to chase you because it focuses in on that emotional pathway between the two of you and fires emotions down it that the girl just loves
and are drawn to. Your full expression of your full range of emotions, attracts the girl and makes her feel connected.
*A Key Kino Tip: My friend brandon uses kino to his advantage when he is with girls. He pusts his arm around them for extended amounts of time so that he and the girl both
pass the initial awkard moment of holding on too long. Also, he just puts himself in a close proximity to the girl so that she just gets used to him being there and she then is
just naturally drawn to him.
Here's a little story....
There once was a girl named Kyli. Kyli was a girl that every guy seemed to think was cute. She actually
possessed some charming qualities that could be found in an alpha male. Outgoing, going after what she wanted, embracing what she liked, and most important of all, going after
which ever guy she wanted. Now, she wasn't a hoe or anything, but went after what she wanted. Flirting with any guy she deemed merely attractive, listening intently to
whatever the guy said making him feel special. She would do things to push the male attraction buttons a little harder. She would try to hold the poor guy's hand, squeeze his
cheek, hug him for extra long, making the guy look like a total dog, but deep down he loved it. she did all these things tho make the guy think she liked him. she mad the guy
think that they had a CONNECTION. Now, what YOU need to do is do exactly what she did. I call it KG for "Kyli Game"
The KG Mini Game Set
Kyli(You): Hi(with smile)
Guy(Girl): Hi
Kyli: Can I teach you a handshake?
Guy: Okay
*Handshake
Kyli: You're my bestfriend now!
Guy: (*o*)
Kyli Leaves.......But then she comes back...*BOOM* Hug around the guy's side and she's all like "hey bestfriend!" and the guy is like "holy shit, she must like me!"
Kyli: I love you
Guy: I love you too ha ha
After some small talk, she tries to go for the holding hands. The guy is either going to accept it or reject it. Hand accepted: "OMG, we're getting married!"
hand rejected: (she acts shocked and walks away). Leaving the guy wanting more. The point is to keep push/pulling. It's like a roller coaster that goes up
and down it's the change in altitude, the change in emotional vibes, that gets her attracted to you.
So that's Kyli Game. Let me teach you the smile. 1. Eyes light up 2.Genuine smile slowly
Another way to create connection is to create the "you and me" vibe. The you and me vibe is where you say things like "we should totally go skydiving" or
"we're getting married". The "you and me" vibe is where you include the both of you interacting and she has her focus on you.
You and Me Vibe
-WE factor: we've got to go bowling, we're like cavemen on an adventure,we're awesome.
(also going somewhere with the girl, being alone with the girl, and experienceing something with the girl, tighten the connection)
-Kino: Arm around shoulder(what Brandon did), look her right in the fucking eyes(not creepily)
-Being in the moment:Your Being is speaking to her Being; you're not there to take, only to give; connection knowing
So yeah, this was about two years ago lol. The basic points of me telling the kyli story is to put you in the girl's shoes when she's being gamed. She always had positive emotions and always projected them onto the guy so much that he would feel them too. And when they both were on the same energy level, she would leave and go talk to another guy or something leaving the guy there attracted to her not knowing what to do.
As for connection, I view it as the two of you are friends. Imagine your best friend and how they treat you, now look at the girl as being so comfortable with you that she treats you the same way. It's pretty much the same vibe, it's just that when you and the girl are alone, you're going to stick your finger in her butt.
Yeah that's pretty much it. Idk if this was cool or not. If not, Im never posting again lmao
Stay Pimpin,
Ihop
