Got some questions about hair/clothes

[brandigler]

So basically, I've been struggling getting girls and I feel like it might have something to do with my style.
I have long hair, wear skinny jeans and have moderate acne.

so Here's my hair imageshack.us/photo/my-images/405/ztov.jpg/

Here's some of my pants and shoes imageshack.us/photo/my-images/22/790e.jpg/ imageshack.us/photo/my-images/405/xka1.jpg/

my attempt at taking a whole body without a mirror imageshack.us/photo/my-images/14/pg4a.jpg/ also my sweater imageshack.us/photo/my-images/19/y2xi.jpg/

I'm just not too sure what part of my style is leading girls away is it my hair, my jeans I just dunno. any advice ?

Also atleast 80% of guys at my school have short hair and wear baggy pants. Which is kind of making me think I should cut my hair.

[smoovemove]

Alright, so... I wouldn't say that you need to cut all your hair. You can have the same hairstyle if you want but make it shorter. Your clother are alright, maybe you should buy smaller size t-shirts because from the picture you look skinny to me and the long t-shirt makes you even more skinnier. I am not a ripped guy about 180cm and 65kg but it will be in help of you if you start working out. I'm a basketball player and working out has helped me. Ask anything if you have more questions.

[amarok]

I'm a big fan of classic, manly styles. In high school, you might call this preppy. In college, it's fratty as all fuck.

www.artofmanliness.com/2009/10/27/the-mad-men-guide-to-a-manly-haircut/
These hair styles will look good on damn near anybody.

www.realmenrealstyle.com/
You can go here and get Antonio Centeno's free ebook, 7 deadly style sins, as well as real nice articles on manly style and some really good quality clothes stores.

In the end, it's up to you. I took a cue from history and went with the style that every successful American man wore for just until recently.

EDIT: Also, your style MOST LIKELY (like, 90%) has nothing to do with your struggling. That's all on you. You aren't extremely ugly and you aren't an adonis, so looks and style has very little to do with how well you do socially. That's all on your skill as a social person.

[derekk]

Oct 25, 2013 14:08:31 GMT -5 amarok said:

I'm a big fan of classic, manly styles. In high school, you might call this preppy. In college, it's fratty as all fuck.

www.artofmanliness.com/2009/10/27/the-mad-men-guide-to-a-manly-haircut/
These hair styles will look good on damn near anybody.

www.realmenrealstyle.com/
You can go here and get Antonio Centeno's free ebook, 7 deadly style sins, as well as real nice articles on manly style and some really good quality clothes stores.

In the end, it's up to you. I took a cue from history and went with the style that every successful American man wore for just until recently.

EDIT: Also, your style MOST LIKELY (like, 90%) has nothing to do with your struggling. That's all on you. You aren't extremely ugly and you aren't an adonis, so looks and style has very little to do with how well you do socially. That's all on your skill as a social person.

I'm gonna be blunt, don't listen to what he just said.

style does play a decent role in being attractive.

1. you look like a lazy stoner, honestly. definitely get a short haircut, but don't get one of the haircuts from the art of manliness website. Your hair is too good to be wasted on a boring style like that. The guy in this video has a good hairstyle.

2.start lifting and bulking. You look like a toothpick. Get on a caloric surplus diet and start lifting heavy with low reps (8-12).

3. Your v neck is too big, your hoodie looks ghetto as fuck. Skinny jeans fit fine on you, but I recommend getting a pair of beige and regular blue jeans. Make sure they are skinny (but not super tight) and fit well. I suggest long sleeve t shirts and regular t-shirts that fit WELL. An ugly t shirt that fits will look better than a good looking t shirt that doesn't. For shoes, but some Chuck Taylors. I recommend investing in a good looking jacket too, which also fits well.
www.amazon.com/Doublju-Mens-Double-Jumper-CHARCOAL/dp/B009RHO3XM/ref=sr_1_5?s=apparel&ie=UTF8&qid=1382735296&sr=1-5&keywords=hoodie
www.amazon.com/Threads-Thought-Sleeve-Henley-Carbon/dp/B00DYRNKVW/ref=sr_1_33?s=apparel&ie=UTF8&qid=1382734889&sr=1-33&keywords=long+sleeve+t+shirt
www.amazon.com/Hurley-Staple-Sleeve-Raglan-Henna/dp/B00AZNUWQY/ref=sr_1_39?s=apparel&ie=UTF8&qid=1382734889&sr=1-39&keywords=long+sleeve+t+shirt

4. Get some accessories. Wristband and necklace work well.
www.amazon.com/dp/B00C1U0QK6/ref=as_li_ss_til?tag=lifestyle0bc-20&camp=0&creative=0&linkCode=as4&creativeASIN=B00C1U0QK6&adid=0FDXEHCVEQAV51M6SDY6

5. Check out all the links in this guy's thread: goodlookingloser.com/forums/index.php?topic=2371.0

[brandigler]

Oct 25, 2013 16:14:16 GMT -5 derekk said:

Oct 25, 2013 14:08:31 GMT -5 amarok said:

I'm a big fan of classic, manly styles. In high school, you might call this preppy. In college, it's fratty as all fuck.

www.artofmanliness.com/2009/10/27/the-mad-men-guide-to-a-manly-haircut/
These hair styles will look good on damn near anybody.

www.realmenrealstyle.com/
You can go here and get Antonio Centeno's free ebook, 7 deadly style sins, as well as real nice articles on manly style and some really good quality clothes stores.

In the end, it's up to you. I took a cue from history and went with the style that every successful American man wore for just until recently.

EDIT: Also, your style MOST LIKELY (like, 90%) has nothing to do with your struggling. That's all on you. You aren't extremely ugly and you aren't an adonis, so looks and style has very little to do with how well you do socially. That's all on your skill as a social person.

I'm gonna be blunt, don't listen to what he just said.

style does play a decent role in being attractive.

1. you look like a lazy stoner, honestly. definitely get a short haircut, but don't get one of the haircuts from the art of manliness website. Your hair is too good to be wasted on a boring style like that. The guy in this video has a good hairstyle.

2.start lifting and bulking. You look like a toothpick. Get on a caloric surplus diet and start lifting heavy with low reps (8-12).

3. Your v neck is too big, your hoodie looks ghetto as fuck. Skinny jeans fit fine on you, but I recommend getting a pair of beige and regular blue jeans. Make sure they are skinny (but not super tight) and fit well. I suggest long sleeve t shirts and regular t-shirts that fit WELL. An ugly t shirt that fits will look better than a good looking t shirt that doesn't. For shoes, but some Chuck Taylors. I recommend investing in a good looking jacket too, which also fits well.
www.amazon.com/Doublju-Mens-Double-Jumper-CHARCOAL/dp/B009RHO3XM/ref=sr_1_5?s=apparel&ie=UTF8&qid=1382735296&sr=1-5&keywords=hoodie
www.amazon.com/Threads-Thought-Sleeve-Henley-Carbon/dp/B00DYRNKVW/ref=sr_1_33?s=apparel&ie=UTF8&qid=1382734889&sr=1-33&keywords=long+sleeve+t+shirt
www.amazon.com/Hurley-Staple-Sleeve-Raglan-Henna/dp/B00AZNUWQY/ref=sr_1_39?s=apparel&ie=UTF8&qid=1382734889&sr=1-39&keywords=long+sleeve+t+shirt

4. Get some accessories. Wristband and necklace work well.
www.amazon.com/dp/B00C1U0QK6/ref=as_li_ss_til?tag=lifestyle0bc-20&camp=0&creative=0&linkCode=as4&creativeASIN=B00C1U0QK6&adid=0FDXEHCVEQAV51M6SDY6

5. Check out all the links in this guy's thread: goodlookingloser.com/forums/index.php?topic=2371.0

To be honest I am a lazy stoner, I also know that most of the shirts I wear are a little big on me but haven't bought new ones because 1 I don't have much money and 2 where I live it's cold so I wear my sweater pretty much all day at this point and you never see my shirts. As for the pants I have blue regular jeans I just wear the blue/red jeans way more that's why I showed those instead of the others. I also personally like hair cuts like this www.mens-hairstyle.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/Best-mens-short-hair-2013.jpg but just dunno if I wanna let go of my hair yet as some of the girls I hang out with like it and tell me not to cut it. I'm going to start being more outgoing with girls too, after the weekend I plan on asking this girl out and see how that goes. So wish me luck as it's the second girl I think actually likes me somewhat.

[derekk]

that's a legit hairstyle, but i think you can pull off something like this: www.menshairblog.com/how-to-get-zyzz-hair-haircut-hairstyle-products/ with the hair you have. I think you should go for it. Just print out the instructions and give it to a hairdresser or something.

It's kinda good that you live in a cold area. It sounds like you have enough pants, so just invest in good, well fitted jacket now. I recommend checking out the brand Doublju on amazon. They have really good looking jackets which are almost all under $50

[Sloth]

long hair and short hair work, but there has to be style. Yours is just a big ball of hair, go somewhere and get it styled rather than just letting it grow into some bush.

When amarok said your style MOST LIKELY has nothing to do with your struggling. He was pretty much right.

You struggle because either you lack confidence or you're too outcome dependant. I get that from a few girls saying to you don't cut your hair, so that validation resonates with you and you listen to them. Go be your own man instead...

However derekk's right too, style's a big deal. Particularly how your style effects your behaviour. If you don't feel comfortable in what you wear, your actions will reflect that of someone who is uncomfortable. If you feel like what you wear makes people think differently of you (which i think you do because you said your school all wear other shit to what you wear) then that will be reflected in your behaviour. Stop worrying about what the other fucks think of your clothes. In England our fashion is YEARS ahead of yours in America, if i came over there i'd look really different, but it wouldn't matter to me cause i like what i wear. The only thing you have to worry about with style is making it fit well and coordinating your colours. What you wear is fine.. could be better could be worse, nothing worth losing sleep over. Like i said, it's how your clothes make you feel that's bringing you down, so change them if you want. Otherwise learn to be comfortable in them, nobody really gives a fuck mate.

Aside from that concentrate on hygiene too.

[brandigler]

Oct 27, 2013 10:49:45 GMT -5 derekk said:

that's a legit hairstyle, but i think you can pull off something like this: www.menshairblog.com/how-to-get-zyzz-hair-haircut-hairstyle-products/ with the hair you have. I think you should go for it. Just print out the instructions and give it to a hairdresser or something.

It's kinda good that you live in a cold area. It sounds like you have enough pants, so just invest in good, well fitted jacket now. I recommend checking out the brand Doublju on amazon. They have really good looking jackets which are almost all under $50

I like the hairstyle might get it soon, as for jackets what about this one ? www.amazon.com/Doublju-Mens-Removable-Jacket-WHITE/dp/B00453GNA4/ref=sr_1_12?s=apparel&ie=UTF8&qid=1382937480&sr=1-12 I think it looks pretty well and they have X small which is what I need. the one I'm wearing now is a small and it's still kinda big and those shirts as well are smalls and still too big.

[derekk]

Oct 28, 2013 0:20:47 GMT -5 brandigler said:

Oct 27, 2013 10:49:45 GMT -5 derekk said:

that's a legit hairstyle, but i think you can pull off something like this: www.menshairblog.com/how-to-get-zyzz-hair-haircut-hairstyle-products/ with the hair you have. I think you should go for it. Just print out the instructions and give it to a hairdresser or something.

It's kinda good that you live in a cold area. It sounds like you have enough pants, so just invest in good, well fitted jacket now. I recommend checking out the brand Doublju on amazon. They have really good looking jackets which are almost all under $50

I like the hairstyle might get it soon, as for jackets what about this one ? www.amazon.com/Doublju-Mens-Removable-Jacket-WHITE/dp/B00453GNA4/ref=sr_1_12?s=apparel&ie=UTF8&qid=1382937480&sr=1-12 I think it looks pretty well and they have X small which is what I need. the one I'm wearing now is a small and it's still kinda big and those shirts as well are smalls and still too big.

it looks too feminine

[Logic]

Get a hair cut for sure.. I can see you with something like this just minus the facial hair
haircutss.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/men-long-haircut-48.jpg

Also for clothing get anything that looks fresh.
www.amazon.com/TheLees-Casual-Cotton-Jacket-X-Large/dp/B00AWA4P3Q/ref=sr_1_1?s=apparel&ie=UTF8&qid=1383100991&sr=1-1&keywords=jacket
www.asos.com/Men/Hoodies-Sweatshirts/Cat/pgecategory.aspx?cid=5668&via=top

Just some ideas

[JUMB0z]

do I see men talking about hair? hahaha really?
i did not expect this

dude you just stay clean and neat and that's it
wear what you like, just just smell nice and don't have greasy hair

[derekk]

Oct 31, 2013 12:42:20 GMT -5 JUMB0z said:

do I see men talking about hair? hahaha really?
i did not expect this

dude you just stay clean and neat and that's it
wear what you like, just just smell nice and don't have greasy hair

I like to look better than average



it gets the bishes

[brandigler]

Oct 31, 2013 15:47:22 GMT -5 derekk said:

Oct 31, 2013 12:42:20 GMT -5 JUMB0z said:

do I see men talking about hair? hahaha really?
i did not expect this

dude you just stay clean and neat and that's it
wear what you like, just just smell nice and don't have greasy hair

I like to look better than average



it gets the bishes

Recently I got snake bites and the right side of my nose pierced with a hoop hopefully that helps get the bishes ;3

[derekk]

youwotm8

[JUMB0z]

this is peacocking now
I like the idea of the snake bite but not so much the nose hoop
anyway it doesn't matter what I or anyone else think, it matters what you think