Post by Grape on Dec 21, 2008 18:48:28 GMT -5
Written By Swinggcat
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A big part of succeeding with women is having what I call Prizability - that's the degree to which a woman sees you as the Prize.
Fact: Sporting a fat bank account, being a Rhodes Scholar, speaking five languages fluently, and having traveled the world three times over again are all things you can use to increase your Prizability with women.
Problem is... most of us guys don't possess any of these qualities.
Before you grab a bucket for the stream of boohoo about to explode out of each of your tear ducts, take a deep breath, my man.
You can turn anything into A Prizable quality... and here's why...
Have you ever noticed the big blocks of time most women squander away on wrapping a present? They've got to find the perfect paper, the right ribbons and bows, and the ideal card. How the present is wrapped is more important, for many women, than the present itself.
The same holds true for conveying something about yourself.
If you present it in the right way, women will see it as Prizable.
In a minute I'm going to reveal one of the secrets behind doing this.
But first…
I want to tell you a story. Inside this story you'll discover a dangerous mistake most men are guilty of yet oblivious to...
A few weeks ago I was talking to a friend of mine. The conversation started off friendly yet ended up turning into a proverbial Quaalude. If conversations had a taste or smell, this one would have reeked of foot and ass.
He bragged to me about all of the people he knew, money he had… and so on.
After twenty minutes of him boasting galore, I was bored out of my mind. I felt like he was trying to get a job from me, presenting his résumé the best he could.
I was not impressed.
Am I jaded?
No – because no matter how spine-tingling his accomplishments were, I'd be yawning with boredom.
In fact… It wasn't anything he said in particular that turned me off.
What irked me was his presentation.
What is the lesson to be learned?
You could possess a higher IQ than Albert Einstein, overcome more crap than Lance Armstrong, and have a bigger bank account than a Saudi Prince...
...But if you showcase these qualities in a way that subcommunicates your need for validation and approval, your Prizability will dwindle to a suicidal zero.
Here's why…
Seeking a woman's validation and approval contextualizes the Meta-Frame - the underlying meaning of your interaction - as her being the Prize you are trying to win over.
This is dangerous because...
Women only feel attraction for men they perceive as the Prize.
Swinggcat, for God sake, teach me how to present qualities about myself in a Prizable way.
Okay, okay.
One of my favorite ways is to reveal these qualities within the context of a story.
But here's the key… and this is important… so pay attention…
The plot of the story is never based around one of my Prizable qualities. If it were, I'd risk coming across as needy and approval seeking.
Instead, my Prizable qualities become either a detail within the story or the context the story takes place in.
For example...
Many women perceive worldly men as packing an S load of Prizability.
Because I've done a lot of traveling, I have several light-hearted stories about my travels.
The plots of these stories are always devoid of any Prizable qualities.
But the context these stories take place in contains the Prizable quality of being well traveled.
Maybe you're thinking, “This strategy sounds great. The only problem is, I'm not a great storyteller.”
Well, I've got news for you…
Every ladies man has at least a few great stories – and for a good reason…
Storytelling is one of the best mediums for conveying your Prizable qualities to a woman.
Many natural ladies men have another trick up their sleeve for showing off their Prizable qualities to women...
While reading a good book or watching an enthralling movie, have you ever found yourself identifying with the hero?
He may have flaws... he might be cruel or even a little needy at times... but you wanna like him. You feel compelled to see him as Prizable.
The reason is because the writers are using an ancient storytelling structure that taps into hardwiring in your brain that drives you to identify with and like the hero.
For example, I have a story I tell girls about when people picked sports teams in junior high, I was selected after the athletic girls.
On the surface, you might think this demonstrates a lack of Prizability to women.
However, because I use this storytelling structure, I'm able to turn it into a Prizable quality.
Students of mine have used this storytelling structure to turn qualities such as being poor, bald, obese, and short into Prizable attributes.
What would it be like to mutate every one of your insecurities into high octane ammo for building Prizability with women?
I'm willing to bet that would feel pretty damn good.
Well, that's exactly what this storytelling structure will enable you to do.
Inside my brand-spanking new Natural Vibing course you'll learn this entire storytelling structure.
Plus you'll receive a PhD education on vibing and attracting women.
Just like many others have been doing, you too can catapult your current lifestyle with women by getting your hands on a copy of my course right now. You deserve it.
Even the info page about the course is an education in and of itself.
I'm so confident that my course is going to drastically increase your success with women I'm going to let you test-drive it for free of charge. Don't like it, send it back. You won't be charged and we'll still be friends.
You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. I think you owe it to yourself to start succeeding with the women you really want.
Click here to reserve your copy right now.
And if you haven't yet picked up a copy of my ebook do so by clicking here. It's the foundation for everything I teach.
Your Loyal Dating Coach,
P.S.- If you have a success story you would like to share or a dating question you would like to ask, or a comment you would like to make, following these guidelines :
1) Tell me what's working for you before asking your question.
2) Tell me all the details and specifics. This helps guys to see what's working in different situations.
3) Make sure to include the fist initial of your first and last name. And include the country, state/province, and city you live in.
4) Send it to me at: swinggcatsuccessstory@yahoo.com
P.P.S.-If you've got a billing question please email:
support@realworldseduction.com
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A big part of succeeding with women is having what I call Prizability - that's the degree to which a woman sees you as the Prize.
Fact: Sporting a fat bank account, being a Rhodes Scholar, speaking five languages fluently, and having traveled the world three times over again are all things you can use to increase your Prizability with women.
Problem is... most of us guys don't possess any of these qualities.
Before you grab a bucket for the stream of boohoo about to explode out of each of your tear ducts, take a deep breath, my man.
You can turn anything into A Prizable quality... and here's why...
Have you ever noticed the big blocks of time most women squander away on wrapping a present? They've got to find the perfect paper, the right ribbons and bows, and the ideal card. How the present is wrapped is more important, for many women, than the present itself.
The same holds true for conveying something about yourself.
If you present it in the right way, women will see it as Prizable.
In a minute I'm going to reveal one of the secrets behind doing this.
But first…
I want to tell you a story. Inside this story you'll discover a dangerous mistake most men are guilty of yet oblivious to...
A few weeks ago I was talking to a friend of mine. The conversation started off friendly yet ended up turning into a proverbial Quaalude. If conversations had a taste or smell, this one would have reeked of foot and ass.
He bragged to me about all of the people he knew, money he had… and so on.
After twenty minutes of him boasting galore, I was bored out of my mind. I felt like he was trying to get a job from me, presenting his résumé the best he could.
I was not impressed.
Am I jaded?
No – because no matter how spine-tingling his accomplishments were, I'd be yawning with boredom.
In fact… It wasn't anything he said in particular that turned me off.
What irked me was his presentation.
What is the lesson to be learned?
You could possess a higher IQ than Albert Einstein, overcome more crap than Lance Armstrong, and have a bigger bank account than a Saudi Prince...
...But if you showcase these qualities in a way that subcommunicates your need for validation and approval, your Prizability will dwindle to a suicidal zero.
Here's why…
Seeking a woman's validation and approval contextualizes the Meta-Frame - the underlying meaning of your interaction - as her being the Prize you are trying to win over.
This is dangerous because...
Women only feel attraction for men they perceive as the Prize.
Swinggcat, for God sake, teach me how to present qualities about myself in a Prizable way.
Okay, okay.
One of my favorite ways is to reveal these qualities within the context of a story.
But here's the key… and this is important… so pay attention…
The plot of the story is never based around one of my Prizable qualities. If it were, I'd risk coming across as needy and approval seeking.
Instead, my Prizable qualities become either a detail within the story or the context the story takes place in.
For example...
Many women perceive worldly men as packing an S load of Prizability.
Because I've done a lot of traveling, I have several light-hearted stories about my travels.
The plots of these stories are always devoid of any Prizable qualities.
But the context these stories take place in contains the Prizable quality of being well traveled.
Maybe you're thinking, “This strategy sounds great. The only problem is, I'm not a great storyteller.”
Well, I've got news for you…
Every ladies man has at least a few great stories – and for a good reason…
Storytelling is one of the best mediums for conveying your Prizable qualities to a woman.
Many natural ladies men have another trick up their sleeve for showing off their Prizable qualities to women...
While reading a good book or watching an enthralling movie, have you ever found yourself identifying with the hero?
He may have flaws... he might be cruel or even a little needy at times... but you wanna like him. You feel compelled to see him as Prizable.
The reason is because the writers are using an ancient storytelling structure that taps into hardwiring in your brain that drives you to identify with and like the hero.
For example, I have a story I tell girls about when people picked sports teams in junior high, I was selected after the athletic girls.
On the surface, you might think this demonstrates a lack of Prizability to women.
However, because I use this storytelling structure, I'm able to turn it into a Prizable quality.
Students of mine have used this storytelling structure to turn qualities such as being poor, bald, obese, and short into Prizable attributes.
What would it be like to mutate every one of your insecurities into high octane ammo for building Prizability with women?
I'm willing to bet that would feel pretty damn good.
Well, that's exactly what this storytelling structure will enable you to do.
Inside my brand-spanking new Natural Vibing course you'll learn this entire storytelling structure.
Plus you'll receive a PhD education on vibing and attracting women.
Just like many others have been doing, you too can catapult your current lifestyle with women by getting your hands on a copy of my course right now. You deserve it.
Even the info page about the course is an education in and of itself.
I'm so confident that my course is going to drastically increase your success with women I'm going to let you test-drive it for free of charge. Don't like it, send it back. You won't be charged and we'll still be friends.
You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. I think you owe it to yourself to start succeeding with the women you really want.
Click here to reserve your copy right now.
And if you haven't yet picked up a copy of my ebook do so by clicking here. It's the foundation for everything I teach.
Your Loyal Dating Coach,
P.S.- If you have a success story you would like to share or a dating question you would like to ask, or a comment you would like to make, following these guidelines :
1) Tell me what's working for you before asking your question.
2) Tell me all the details and specifics. This helps guys to see what's working in different situations.
3) Make sure to include the fist initial of your first and last name. And include the country, state/province, and city you live in.
4) Send it to me at: swinggcatsuccessstory@yahoo.com
P.P.S.-If you've got a billing question please email:
support@realworldseduction.com
