Post by ihop on Nov 5, 2013 22:15:24 GMT -5
Hey Guys.
What I want to talk about is how to automatically put yourself ahead of 90% of the guys in the girls eyes in your class, school, or anywhere in general. So what does it take to put yourself ahead?
Engagement.
By engagement I mean actually present to the moment enjoying what you do. Take for example, a football player enjoys what he does. When he plays the game he is present to the moment, he has fun doing it. I want you to enjoy being in school, and enjoy whatever your doing at any specific moment in time.
School an be very tiring and can run you down. By the end of the day, you feel as if you need a nap. This isn't because you need a nap, it's because you have been sitting for about seven hours being unconscious and not engaged. It is very normal with the dry material that is being taught in high school. Instead of giving in to these feelings, I want you to do the opposite. I want you to be engaged and present to the moment. So how do we do such a task? Remember back to when you were in the first grade? You we're sitting in your chair eagerly awaiting the next play learning game with your chest raised and back erect. When the teacher would ask a question everyone would raise and wiggle their hand saying "ooh! ooh!". There were no kids that were sitting with their head on their desk sleeping. When it was time to go to another activity, you and your classmates would walk briskly because you wanted to get there and do the task. There we're no kids lagging behind because they weren't interested. The point is, when you were in the first grade, you were engaged and present to the moment. This is the same place we want to be when in school. So how do we get ourselves back into this engaged state?
We have to re-assume these characteristics. You don't have to be be excited to do the next activity or all that other shit but you want to have the same vibe. The characteristics are a raised chest, erect back, being present to the moment and enjoying it. I want you to one day sit in the back of your classes and observe the body language of your fellow classmates. See how almost ALL of them are slouching. Head drooped forward, shoulders forward, maybe looking at their phone. This is exactly what you DON'T want to do. You want to be up, paying attention to what the teacher is teaching.This has the carry over of actually helping you in school as well lol.
"This info is good and all, but I don't really care what the teacher says and how the fuck is this going to get me girls?"
Good question. Let's assess both parts of it:
1. You're either at school because you chose to be there(college/university) or because you have to be there (high school). If you've chose to be at school and you're choosing not to pay full attention in class and enjoy it, you need to reconsider your values because they are obviously misaligned with what you're doing. If you have to be there because of the government, it's ALWAYS best to do your best in what you absolutely have to do and you might actually find value in it.
2. Ok, now on to the fun part. How is this going to get you girls? Let's go back to the body language of the class. Everybody is slumped, everybody is durr. How do you think their psychology is in relation to their body language? If you look at it, it's like your classmates are trying to get in themselves, they want to close up. On the other hand, how do you think your body language looks like? Chest out, head up, paying attention -it looks like you are opening up. It looks like you're the dominant one, the alpha male. You can even lean back and take up as much space as you want. You're the one that's awake, you're the leader. Beta chodes = closed in, Alpha male= opened up.
You're the guy with a purpose, you're the guy that knows why he's there. It's almost as if you have to open up these little chodes and chodets and say "Hey we're living life". This puts you ahead of the 90% because the rest are just guys that are closed up. This displays itself perfectly in high school cliques. What guy talks to everybody (all cliques, teachers, staff) in the same way and treats everybody he talks to the same way? Almost none. Simply realizing why you're in school (to learn shit) and being in touch with that and going and actually learning instead of going to school to see your friends, or just because you think it's something you have to do, automatically makes you centered which almost a trait NO ONE in high school has.
Girls are extremely attracted to a guy who is centered. It's something that turns them on. When you're centered, almost every girl you game will be attracted to you. If a girl isn't into you, it doesn't matter because you're not there to get girls, you simply get them in stride. This isn't escapism, it's just the truth but only if you feel it. Being engaged tends to make you more outgoing and gives you more energy. You'll feel more inclined to approach and attract a girl just because you want to. You don't need an excuse. You're the dominant male, the alpha male, leader of the pack. You're sociable with everybody and treat them as the same. You're opened up, and the girl is closed in. You want to open her up and make her attracted. Even if the girl is "open", say she is sociable and engaged as well, it's even easier because you have someone with the same vibe.
To conclude
1.Be engaged
- head up, chest up, back erect, paying attention and seeing the value in school work.
2."Open" other people up by talking to them and open the girl
-take these in stride, school is the reason why you're there.
Stay Pimpin
,
Ihop
What I want to talk about is how to automatically put yourself ahead of 90% of the guys in the girls eyes in your class, school, or anywhere in general. So what does it take to put yourself ahead?
Engagement.
By engagement I mean actually present to the moment enjoying what you do. Take for example, a football player enjoys what he does. When he plays the game he is present to the moment, he has fun doing it. I want you to enjoy being in school, and enjoy whatever your doing at any specific moment in time.
School an be very tiring and can run you down. By the end of the day, you feel as if you need a nap. This isn't because you need a nap, it's because you have been sitting for about seven hours being unconscious and not engaged. It is very normal with the dry material that is being taught in high school. Instead of giving in to these feelings, I want you to do the opposite. I want you to be engaged and present to the moment. So how do we do such a task? Remember back to when you were in the first grade? You we're sitting in your chair eagerly awaiting the next play learning game with your chest raised and back erect. When the teacher would ask a question everyone would raise and wiggle their hand saying "ooh! ooh!". There were no kids that were sitting with their head on their desk sleeping. When it was time to go to another activity, you and your classmates would walk briskly because you wanted to get there and do the task. There we're no kids lagging behind because they weren't interested. The point is, when you were in the first grade, you were engaged and present to the moment. This is the same place we want to be when in school. So how do we get ourselves back into this engaged state?
We have to re-assume these characteristics. You don't have to be be excited to do the next activity or all that other shit but you want to have the same vibe. The characteristics are a raised chest, erect back, being present to the moment and enjoying it. I want you to one day sit in the back of your classes and observe the body language of your fellow classmates. See how almost ALL of them are slouching. Head drooped forward, shoulders forward, maybe looking at their phone. This is exactly what you DON'T want to do. You want to be up, paying attention to what the teacher is teaching.This has the carry over of actually helping you in school as well lol.
"This info is good and all, but I don't really care what the teacher says and how the fuck is this going to get me girls?"
Good question. Let's assess both parts of it:
1. You're either at school because you chose to be there(college/university) or because you have to be there (high school). If you've chose to be at school and you're choosing not to pay full attention in class and enjoy it, you need to reconsider your values because they are obviously misaligned with what you're doing. If you have to be there because of the government, it's ALWAYS best to do your best in what you absolutely have to do and you might actually find value in it.
2. Ok, now on to the fun part. How is this going to get you girls? Let's go back to the body language of the class. Everybody is slumped, everybody is durr. How do you think their psychology is in relation to their body language? If you look at it, it's like your classmates are trying to get in themselves, they want to close up. On the other hand, how do you think your body language looks like? Chest out, head up, paying attention -it looks like you are opening up. It looks like you're the dominant one, the alpha male. You can even lean back and take up as much space as you want. You're the one that's awake, you're the leader. Beta chodes = closed in, Alpha male= opened up.
You're the guy with a purpose, you're the guy that knows why he's there. It's almost as if you have to open up these little chodes and chodets and say "Hey we're living life". This puts you ahead of the 90% because the rest are just guys that are closed up. This displays itself perfectly in high school cliques. What guy talks to everybody (all cliques, teachers, staff) in the same way and treats everybody he talks to the same way? Almost none. Simply realizing why you're in school (to learn shit) and being in touch with that and going and actually learning instead of going to school to see your friends, or just because you think it's something you have to do, automatically makes you centered which almost a trait NO ONE in high school has.
Girls are extremely attracted to a guy who is centered. It's something that turns them on. When you're centered, almost every girl you game will be attracted to you. If a girl isn't into you, it doesn't matter because you're not there to get girls, you simply get them in stride. This isn't escapism, it's just the truth but only if you feel it. Being engaged tends to make you more outgoing and gives you more energy. You'll feel more inclined to approach and attract a girl just because you want to. You don't need an excuse. You're the dominant male, the alpha male, leader of the pack. You're sociable with everybody and treat them as the same. You're opened up, and the girl is closed in. You want to open her up and make her attracted. Even if the girl is "open", say she is sociable and engaged as well, it's even easier because you have someone with the same vibe.
To conclude
1.Be engaged
- head up, chest up, back erect, paying attention and seeing the value in school work.
2."Open" other people up by talking to them and open the girl
-take these in stride, school is the reason why you're there.
Stay Pimpin
, Ihop
