lugomelon
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Post by lugomelon on Nov 7, 2013 6:43:09 GMT -5
So there's this guy at school, I want to get rid of him, right? But he's a show off, and has no more acquaintances (I literally mean acquaintance) but me and a few others. He's defamed us, he's a loudmouth, he touches girls asses and now my friend's friend (Britney) is talking shit to my soon-to-be gf about how "he'll be sick-minded witchu".
Girls won't even talk to us because of him. When we're near him, they just 360 and moonwalk. Once he's gone, they suddenly start talking. This is getting waay out of hand.
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swatt
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Post by swatt on Nov 7, 2013 12:17:16 GMT -5
Sounds like he's getting to your head. Don't lose your cool or he's already won this battle between y'all. If he's ever talking shit around y'all, sarcastically (not angrily) say something along the lines of "oh nice man!", with a slight smirk on your face. (I usually try to make them look like they're throwing a temper tantrum) do NOT get in a heated argument.
Not saying use that exactly but say something that shows your don't care at all and what he's saying means nothing to you. Or I guess if your a peaceful kind of fighter, confront him and ask what the problem is....
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Post by amarok on Nov 7, 2013 15:01:04 GMT -5
I've always found being friendly works the best. I've had more than my fair share of people not like me, even bully me, but surprisingly enough it was only when I ignored the mean and was just friendly to them that they stopped being mean and actually started being nice. A simple, sup, how's it going? will throw them off. Make a friend out of them, and if they refuse, well he just looks like a dick now.
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lugomelon
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Post by lugomelon on Nov 8, 2013 1:52:04 GMT -5
Sounds like he's getting to your head. Don't lose your cool or he's already won this battle between y'all He is (or was) my friend. I don't like him because he took away my chances to getting in good with a girl. I've always found being friendly works the best. I've had more than my fair share of people not like me, even bully me, but surprisingly enough it was only when I ignored the mean and was just friendly to them that they stopped being mean and actually started being nice. Sorry, but I can't do that. As I stated before, he was my friend, and now he won't back off my other friends. May I add, he spells 'girl' with a 'b' |
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Post by amarok on Nov 8, 2013 19:38:30 GMT -5
Well unless you're gonna fight him you're pretty much stuck. Negative reactions are fuel for people like him.
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BookWorm
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Post by BookWorm on Nov 11, 2013 8:52:38 GMT -5
test
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Post by Romanian MMA Guy on Nov 11, 2013 15:56:02 GMT -5
Beat him up! But outside of school unless you want a nice suspension.
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hutta
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Post by hutta on Nov 16, 2013 3:09:43 GMT -5
really dude? its your fucking life for gods sake. sometimes u gotta man up and talk to a douche face to face. man to man. no more hiding around talking shit behind his back. grab him, tell him exactly whats on your mind and tell him if he doesnt change then ur done with him. Its not that hard when you get the ball rolling. We are all afraid of confrontation but ur not gna have a good life without it. If he doesnt back off then shun him. Sometimes we gta be mean to make our lives better, its life.
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