aero
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Registered: Oct 2, 2013 21:30:31 GMT -5
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Post by aero on Nov 20, 2013 2:17:50 GMT -5
Alright well start from the easy begining. I started going out with this girl two months ago. Blah blah blah, we've gotten pretty far considering she's a prude. Got her to feel comfrontable with her shirt off in front of me but still won't let me finger her. Cause she's always saying she's not ready. Anyway so fast forward to yesterday night, I got her to send me 2 bra pics, which were nice and we got in a stupid fight about something after that so we both went to bed. Wake up to her saying her mom went through her phone & saw the pictures. Fast forward to end of today she says she talked to her mom and now is saying all were going to do is make out and nothing else cause we were moving to fast, cause her mom convinced her she was being stupid. So is it even worth it? I mean I like her but should I even attempt to try to do anything with her after she said that?
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Post by amarok on Nov 20, 2013 12:06:50 GMT -5
The answer depends on you. If you're going to be in this relationship you have to respect her boundaries, even if you're pushing them a bit. If she doesn't want to do anything but make out, you've gotta deal with that. And you have to realize if you do get her to go farther in the moment, she may feel guilty afterwards if she really feels like you're moving too fast. So the question is, do you like her enough to not do anything but make out? If not, break up with her and give her the clear reason why.
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clayman
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Post by clayman on Dec 4, 2013 0:19:34 GMT -5
Do you want a relationship or just sex? If you like her enough to not have sex right away, then sure stick with it. Maybe in the future once her boundaries are lowered again. But if you want it right now I say go for someone else. Its probably going to be hard to convince her to get with you after that stuff happened.
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energizer
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Post by energizer on Dec 4, 2013 4:54:32 GMT -5
If you're just dating her for sex like a lame then No. Like come on bro, just tell her what's up. Also... be careful. If you break up with her & she finds out its because she wouldn't have sex with you... she's gonna tell everyone. The rumor will spread like wildfire! & every girl at your school will know that you only date girls to fuck.
"Worth the effort?" Forreal? You're clearly a virgin. Sex isn't worth months of effort just to "get it in."
Trust me, stay with your girl, bring up sexual things every now and then, be aggressive (girls love men, men do aggressive things), & just wait until the time comes. After you've both lost your virginity to each other, then you'll be fucking everyday.
It's nice having a girlfriend because you can have sex whenever, you can also do more fun and different things.
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