BookWorm
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Registered: Nov 10, 2013 20:56:05 GMT -5
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Post by BookWorm on Dec 9, 2013 20:39:26 GMT -5
I've been into this girl since I met her. At first I was immediately attracted to her, but it went away because I had oneitis for another girl.
I'm over the oneitis and I'm seeing IOI's from this girl like crazy. She is always trying to find ways to initiate physical contact (she flirtatiously took a few of my things and wouldn't give them to me until I held her down), when we talk, she is quick to fill in all empty silence. She even agreed to meet up with me for a day 2 today (which was a flop, btw. My inner pua got knocked down and I didn't escalate at all, but that's not what this thread is for).
The only thing is that she is a freshman and I'm a senior. For some time, I was under the impression that she was 16 (I'm 17 years old) which I was completely okay with. But I found out today that she is only 14, which is a huge gap for high school students.
After finding out our age difference was much larger than what I thought, I've been avoiding escalation just because idk how I feel about dating a girl who is 3 years younger than me (and considering that I turn 18 in 3 months doesn't help this).
Any thoughts or opinions on this subject? Would any of you older guys date a girl this much younger than you? If you have, any suggestions.
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Post by Romanian MMA Guy on Dec 9, 2013 20:57:57 GMT -5
The less fucks you give the more fucks you get
I would go for it, but that's me and it' all up to you and what you want man.
Also avoid oneitis, I recently conquered it myself.
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Post by Romanian MMA Guy on Dec 9, 2013 21:02:27 GMT -5
Oh and if you caring what other people think is holding you back, keeping a i dont give a fuck frame and broadcasting it will repel people from bothering yiu about it because they see that it does not affect you
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Post by amarok on Dec 10, 2013 12:31:36 GMT -5
Honestly man, she's 14. That's way too young in my opinion. Sure it might be a nice hook up, but then you just hooked up with someone who hasn't finished puberty. My advice is to go for girls closer to your age and keep a vibe going with this girl, till she's a more appropriate age. Then do whatever you want.
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DanZy
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Post by DanZy on Dec 10, 2013 14:32:44 GMT -5
I agree, she's way too young for anything
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