Parties

[bison]

hey guys, I'm new to this site and i'm just figuring out how to use it and all. I need some advice on what to do at a party. I'm an above average guy so i know that always helps, it's not like I don't get girls, I just don't get them anywhere close to as much as other guys I know and its really starting to affect me with just going through my daily day. I definitely have potential to get with the best looking girls in school and all but to be honest I don't have, "game," like a lot of my friends. Well anyways, theres this party coming up soon and theres this girl im extremely into, we text and snapchat sometimes, but i cant really tell if shes that interested. Plus, theres another guy who is "no homo" pretty good looking and gets a lot of girls. Do you guys know of any way I can start a little sexual attraction with her and get her over the other guy? 

[Wheels]

I have two tips for you:
1. Confidence, fake it 'til you become it. Don't compare yourself to any of your friends or any other guys, focus on yourself. Also pet peeve of mine is "no homo", be comfortable with your sexuality where you don't have to defend yourself when you compliment a dude.


2. Humble yourself. Don't tell yourself you can get with the hottest girls in school if you haven't yet. All you are doing is lying to yourself and making yourself complacent. By thinking you can get with these girls whenever you want, you become lazy and don't actually work towards your goals of actually getting these girls.

Were this girl and guy a thing at one point? I assume so because you say you want her to get over him.

At the party, talk to her, have fun and be engaging. Get some kino (touch her subtly) and keep it light and playful. Be increasingly sexual if it is going well and escalate from there. If you are prepared and confident enough to go for the kiss, try and pull her away to a private area and make the move.

Good luck.

- Wheels

[eddie8171111]

Here's the deal man, if you want this girl you have to man the fuck up and just go for her. You need to stop thinking things like "I think she's in to me but I don't know." Instead you need to think "I'm going to go for this girl and make a move because I'm a fucking man and that's what men do, who gives a shit what she thinks." Because one of two things will happen if you make a move: She will go with it and be into it and you will get some or she will turn you down and it will suck for a few days but then you will realize that you don't need this specific bitch in your life and you will move on and be stronger for it. As far as specific advice just be yourself and don't give a fuck, don't be an asshole but like playfully touch her and stuff and escalate things on the physical side. If this is going to be a party with drinking have a few beers and loosen up and just make a move man.