Post by amarok on Dec 29, 2013 0:22:07 GMT -5
What's up guys, I want to tell you guys something that I'd forgotten ever since I got to college. It's really important and once you figure this one thing out, your game will improve like A KAJILLION TIMES.
Not every girl is gonna like you.
What I mean by this is take a look at what kind of girls you like. A good, hard look. I'll tell ya, I've been going through Tinder for shits and gigs and the girls I like are a lot different from the girls I thought I liked. I thought I liked brunettes with nice tits, classy like a city girl.
But when those girls came up, I couldn't say I liked them. I liked the thin, blonde, country girls, especially if they were in dresses.
What I realized is that I'm looking for girls everywhere.
I'm looking for girls I like at my frat parties, at martial arts practice, at church (yes I'm super religious and I love it!). The thing is, I'm completely failing when it comes to talking to and making friends with girls at parties, and the girls that come to practice aren't the girls I described. Now I'll say this, I can find girls I'm really attracted to at parties, but I'm not looking for just a hook up. Personally I'm looking for something more. So where do I find a girl with the looks and interests and values that I like? Well, as it stands, church is a pretty good bet.
Try to understand this! I'm not having success at one place or event because the girls there are not the ones I'm looking for. I don't share nearly as many interests with them as I do people that practice fighting or people that go to church.
What I want you to take from this: Look at all the girls you're flirting with and talking to, and ask yourself if you really like them, and what it is you like about them. Are they hot, plain and simple? What makes them hot to you? What kind of social clique do they run in? Next, do you match that clique's style or vibe? Are you a stoner trying to hook up with a girl that would never touch weed? That probably won't work out for you.
Am I saying to change yourself to get with a certain kind of girl? No, but if you really like that general kind of girl, you're probably like that already. Look at the things you do or wear or say or whatever that turns off those girls and change it.
For me, I'm not as "fratty" as some of my other brothers. No, I dress and act more like people that go to church or love fighting. But I realize that I probably shouldn't go to church still tipsy like I did a month ago.
I've got to give a lot of credit to Andrew, because his post here really opened my eyes to this. Please read this, it's really a great post.
Not every girl is gonna like you.
What I mean by this is take a look at what kind of girls you like. A good, hard look. I'll tell ya, I've been going through Tinder for shits and gigs and the girls I like are a lot different from the girls I thought I liked. I thought I liked brunettes with nice tits, classy like a city girl.
But when those girls came up, I couldn't say I liked them. I liked the thin, blonde, country girls, especially if they were in dresses.
What I realized is that I'm looking for girls everywhere.
I'm looking for girls I like at my frat parties, at martial arts practice, at church (yes I'm super religious and I love it!). The thing is, I'm completely failing when it comes to talking to and making friends with girls at parties, and the girls that come to practice aren't the girls I described. Now I'll say this, I can find girls I'm really attracted to at parties, but I'm not looking for just a hook up. Personally I'm looking for something more. So where do I find a girl with the looks and interests and values that I like? Well, as it stands, church is a pretty good bet.
Try to understand this! I'm not having success at one place or event because the girls there are not the ones I'm looking for. I don't share nearly as many interests with them as I do people that practice fighting or people that go to church.
What I want you to take from this: Look at all the girls you're flirting with and talking to, and ask yourself if you really like them, and what it is you like about them. Are they hot, plain and simple? What makes them hot to you? What kind of social clique do they run in? Next, do you match that clique's style or vibe? Are you a stoner trying to hook up with a girl that would never touch weed? That probably won't work out for you.
Am I saying to change yourself to get with a certain kind of girl? No, but if you really like that general kind of girl, you're probably like that already. Look at the things you do or wear or say or whatever that turns off those girls and change it.
For me, I'm not as "fratty" as some of my other brothers. No, I dress and act more like people that go to church or love fighting. But I realize that I probably shouldn't go to church still tipsy like I did a month ago.
I've got to give a lot of credit to Andrew, because his post here really opened my eyes to this. Please read this, it's really a great post.
