Post by ihop on Jan 4, 2014 21:38:47 GMT -5
Let the girl talk.
A person's attraction to something all comes down to how much they talk about, think about, and put energy into that specific object. The energy someone puts into something determines their investment which determines their attraction.
Lets say you were talking to a cute girl and things are going good. You're saying the right things and doing the right things and the girl is attracted. The way to solidify the girl's attraction for you is to let her invest in the interaction. If a girl is attracted to you and you sit back and let her invest into the interaction that two way road of communication will be established and the girl will be more likely to sleep with you. So How do we get a girl to invest. First we have to figure out the definition of investment when it comes to interacting with a girl. The energy someone puts into something determines their investment. This means investment is getting the girl to contribute emotionally to the interaction.
So when I'm gaming up a girl it's about emotions. I want her to have fun talking to her. Getting her to invest is to have her express her emotions and to have fun talking to me. If the girl is attracted, she will want to invest. This is something that you shouldn't have to force. The way I like to get the girl to talk is to ask her interesting questions. This means I'm actually interested in the questions and her response to them. For example: "What if girls had dicks and guys had vaginas?" Now this can be anything you want. "Where are you from?" can work if you want to know where she is from. The key is to give the girl space to invest. Sometimes just sitting back and letting the girl talk works.
If the girl you're talking to is hooked (she'll stay in the conversation), you can let her talk by leaving that space for investment by finishing what you have to say and looking at her calmly in expectancy for her to talk. This will communicate to the girl that it is okay for her to talk and she might ask you a question in return like "where are you from?" in response to the question you asked her before. When she knows it's okay to talk, it's now both of you who are trying to contribute to the interaction instead just you. You don't want to be the one who is the only one contributing to the interaction. In the beginning you do want to give value once you open but after those first few minutes you don't want to be the only one investing.This put's you in the seller frame instead of the buyer frame. Girls aren't attracted to neediness, they're attracted to fun and abundance. The way to create fun is to let her do half the work in the interaction and focus on fun instead.
Stay Pimpin,
Ihop
A person's attraction to something all comes down to how much they talk about, think about, and put energy into that specific object. The energy someone puts into something determines their investment which determines their attraction.
Lets say you were talking to a cute girl and things are going good. You're saying the right things and doing the right things and the girl is attracted. The way to solidify the girl's attraction for you is to let her invest in the interaction. If a girl is attracted to you and you sit back and let her invest into the interaction that two way road of communication will be established and the girl will be more likely to sleep with you. So How do we get a girl to invest. First we have to figure out the definition of investment when it comes to interacting with a girl. The energy someone puts into something determines their investment. This means investment is getting the girl to contribute emotionally to the interaction.
So when I'm gaming up a girl it's about emotions. I want her to have fun talking to her. Getting her to invest is to have her express her emotions and to have fun talking to me. If the girl is attracted, she will want to invest. This is something that you shouldn't have to force. The way I like to get the girl to talk is to ask her interesting questions. This means I'm actually interested in the questions and her response to them. For example: "What if girls had dicks and guys had vaginas?" Now this can be anything you want. "Where are you from?" can work if you want to know where she is from. The key is to give the girl space to invest. Sometimes just sitting back and letting the girl talk works.
If the girl you're talking to is hooked (she'll stay in the conversation), you can let her talk by leaving that space for investment by finishing what you have to say and looking at her calmly in expectancy for her to talk. This will communicate to the girl that it is okay for her to talk and she might ask you a question in return like "where are you from?" in response to the question you asked her before. When she knows it's okay to talk, it's now both of you who are trying to contribute to the interaction instead just you. You don't want to be the one who is the only one contributing to the interaction. In the beginning you do want to give value once you open but after those first few minutes you don't want to be the only one investing.This put's you in the seller frame instead of the buyer frame. Girls aren't attracted to neediness, they're attracted to fun and abundance. The way to create fun is to let her do half the work in the interaction and focus on fun instead.
Stay Pimpin,
Ihop