HB10 need help

[kingofthetrees]

So theres this girl named vanessa and me and vannessa were good freinds last year until our classes changed and vanessa is a real flirt with guys but i want to have a possible friends with benefits relationship with her but the thing is im not affraid to approach her its just shes always talking to other guys and when i see her were walking in opposite direction as i am during passing period i think it would be awkward to go looking for her during lunch to. anyways how do i approach this situation like should i just go up to her and start conversation(what should i start off with approach anxiety isnt a problem for me but keeping a conversation interesting is were i need practice) etc.

please help guys this would mean alot to me if you want me to go further in depth about the situation just message me or something. thanks 
note: she talks to everyone with her hand on their shoulder and kinoing the guy already thats just the way she is so its kind of a hard to tell ioi shes done it to me before. also we use to talk alot and be good friends. this girls is soo fucking hot.

[ihop]

I have this friend who went through the same situation that you're going through....three times. Damn near wasted all of his high school lol. Basically the girl was hot, he was her friend, and every time he would soon make a move on her. It never worked. Anyways to answer your question, what I would say is approach her whenever you see her. Just go up to her.

As for what to talk about with her, I would say you need to talk through your emotions. What this means is talk about what interests you, what makes you feel good. Girls are great on picking up emotions. If you're interested in what your saying, she will be interested in what you're saying.

An example: "I like that shirt, it's blue like my shirt. High five" ......"So what's up?" (she says going to geometry) "Ahh geometry sucks"

It shows you're interesting and cool through the way you express yourself. Girls love expression. And might I suggest that you go and practice this on some other girls to get good at talking and expressing yourself. Hope this helps

[kingofthetrees]

alright Im going to go in for it tommarow although there is one problem if i approach during a passing period should i tell he "lets finish this at break" so we can continue talking because passing period is only 5 mins

[amarok]

Jan 8, 2014 0:54:35 GMT -5 kingofthetrees said:

alright Im going to go in for it tommarow although there is one problem if i approach during a passing period should i tell he "lets finish this at break" so we can continue talking because passing period is only 5 mins

Yeah, just tell her to meet you somewhere, like a specific table or bench or something so you can find her easy and just chill with her.

[ihop]

Jan 8, 2014 14:13:06 GMT -5 amarok said:

Jan 8, 2014 0:54:35 GMT -5 kingofthetrees said:

alright Im going to go in for it tommarow although there is one problem if i approach during a passing period should i tell he "lets finish this at break" so we can continue talking because passing period is only 5 mins

Yeah, just tell her to meet you somewhere, like a specific table or bench or something so you can find her easy and just chill with her.

yeah what amarok said, tell her to meet you someplace, "lets finish this at break" sounds imposing

[kingofthetrees]

i didnt get to see her at today but once i do see her ill let you guys know how it went 

[JUMB0z]

just don't overthink

[Captain Charisma]

Oh my somebody needs a reality check. Have you never heard the saying "for a friend she'll see, a friend you shall forever be". If she is not attracted to you sexually in anyway you would have to chase which can be extremely daunting and the biggest waste of time. So bro i hate to break it to ya but you pretty much fucked up this one, your best choice is to move on and improve yourself. hit the gym, join the football team all whilst dating other beautiful women, this girl that you desire for will chase You!

And for gods sake stop thinking so much.. This is a problem. You associate yourself too closely with your mind. You must remember that your mind is just a tool used to solve equations and whatnot. But when speaking to a woman youve got to speak with raw emotion.. Emotion is body.. Thats why when you touch her she gets tingles all over her body communicating your interest in her. So be in the moment, approach her without thinking at all!

Oh and afew tips when dealing with HB10's who are flirty and shit (been there), YOuve gotta have social proof without it, it is close to impossible. A woman is biologically programmed to never go for anyone "Bellow" her.. Thats why by working on yourself you increase your value and you become "the great catch" and every girl wants the great catch

-Rambo

[clayman]

Okay with HB 10s like this that flirt with a lot of guys, there is a whole special way of going about this. What you have to do is show her that you're different than all the other guys that will just fall into the palm of their hands. You do however, have to get her interested. Try some quick interesting conversations and then leave at a high point so she is still thinking about you. You might even have to be a slight bit of a dick, but you have to show her that she's not that special. Its the only way to get a 10's respect. Also try to get around and be flirty with some of the other HB's that might know her. Like the above post said, social proof is way helpful in this situation.

So social proof + extremely interesting + not always around\un-needy = get HB 10