Any Advice on FWB that turned to LJBF

[antman6]

• Sit next to this girl in class for the whole school year
  
• Suddenly decide I want to hook up with her so I take her on a movie date
• Have heavy makeout sesh after movie
• Begin to text her and see her outside of school for a good 3 weeks
• Really start to like this girl
• Make the mistake of letter her know
• Get a "LJBF" text message
• I become frustrated as hell despite the fact that I only wanted to hook up with her initially
• I Ignore the message over the holiday break
• Come back to school and still ignore her (In hindsight I think this was an AFC move)
• She eventually texts me saying in summary "we shouldn't ignore eachother in school because we take too many classes together and its awkward"
• I accept her offer to be friends, but the next couple of days in school I sure don't act like it (keep ignoring her)

1.) I really feel obligated to apologize to this girl for acting like an ass after saying I would be her friend. Should I?
2.) Do you think this situation is recoverable like I could get her back as a FWB? or should I just give up? 
3.) Should I continue to ignore her until she comes back (sounds AFC-like) or should I push to try and talk to her (Seems still attached)? 

*I think my biggest mistake was being too needy/attached. I want to show her that I am no longer needy or attached 


**EDIT**
There's been ALOT of tension between us. I was thinking I should ask her to meet with me at a coffee shop for us to just talk and catch up to rebuild comfort. From there maybe I could change the situation. Good idea or nah?

[Captain Charisma]

Give up? No thats not the phrase we use, we MOVE ON UP! Listen up one of my moto's which i hold dearly to my heart in=s the concept of always improving, you didn't get her? fuck it, when she tells you lets just be friends BE A FUCKING MAN AND ASK HER "WHY" because it take huge balls to do that, in the situation you've already felt like you've lost everything due to you being so god damned outcome dependent. when she gives you an answer like " We tell each other everything" or "I know you too well" or some bullshit! take that in, write it down and for god sake dont repeat the error. Im giving you a mission, the next girl you go fo has to be even hotter than the one you lost!

Some tips.. Movie dates are what friends do bro, Throw those idea's out the window

- A man never lets his desires control him, You like her. But ask your self what you SHOULD do. When going for a girl lately Ive realised that its a battle between 3 things. YOU, YOUR MIND, YOUR HEART. You ust use both as tool and let non control you. If you hadnt let your desires control you and left the girl in susoense she wouldve wondered WHY your not into her therfore the FWB thing wouldve probably worked out

-Ignoring a girl after LJBF text, wow your a noob at this shit xD, But alas Ive been there, the best thing to do is act COOL about it, Go to school, sit in class and be the center of attention but don't give HER any attention unless she earns it. Simple shit. Reward her with attention when she does shit that YOU like. EVALUATE HER BY YOUR STANDARDS.

-Rambo

[amarok]

There's no need to call him a noob, we all started there and I haven't seen any field reports from you proving you've done better. One of the rules here is respect our fellow members and don't call them names. ESPECIALLY our new guys. Respect the respect rule please.

I don't know if you can get her back as a FWB, you've already put the feelings into the mix which is hard to overcome. But there's no need to get rid of a friend when you don't have to. Yes, I think ignoring her was an asinine move. So apologize and move on. Hang out with her and just be friends. That's not so bad either. And hell, if you were good in bed she could tell her friends about you. Some nice preselection there.

[clayman]

Hmmm this one is tough. I'm not sure there's a way you can get back to being fwb's. I'd say just keep on being her friend if you don't want to ruin the friendship, but that does in no way mean that you have to be as needy or attentive as a normal guy friend. Don't be overly close friends with her, but just keep it cool, attractive, and un-needy.