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[bison]

Hey so theres this girl i like, kinda have oneitis but not really because ive been getting and talking with other girls too, it just seems that after a couple weeks i always resort back to this one girl. Anyways, theres one problem and i can get over it, last year she fucked my bestfriend. Lemme give you a little background information, im a junior now. Freshman year me and this same girl were always hooking up on and off throughout the whole year and even in the beginning of sophmore year. So my bestfriend was like the ugliets motherfucker freshman year and completely turned himself around sophmore year, handsome, tall, and like super rich, like unreal rich lol. So i was the shit freshman year and now he is pretty much, getting with much more girls than me, and always seems to be at the top of the social status and now hes like a complete fucker to me but were still friends but he thinks and acts like he is so much better than everyone else, but i guess thats kinda what you guys stress to do, but anyways thats another story for another day. Anyways, so i kinda stopped talking to her for a while during my sophmore year and she had a boyfriend kinda, so she ended up breaking up with him and started to like my best friend. It really didnt piss me off because i felt like i was done with her anyways because i got head and did everything but sex. But then they fucked and i was super rattled. But then i kinda got over it and was getting with a few other girls. Moreover, as junior year started, like within the first week they fucked agian and i couldn't believe it. Why did she like him so much? and would have sex with him and not me, as if i kinda freind zoned her because i didnt know what i was doing last few years. So they finally stopped but they do flirt alot even though now he has a girlfriend but it pisses me off becasue im kinda talking to her again now and its like he is always gonna have something over me. Now, she definitely likes me again and i like her but it does feel weird but I still do. She tells me how she did it out of pity and had to get over her breaking up with her boyfriend and she wish she didn't. I definitely believe she is telling the truth because she said that last year two. I've had her over the past few weekends and all we do is hookup. nothing else. I m gonna try to make a move next time. Also, i asked her to prom the other day and i want to try to fuck her that day. Thats kinda my plan (first time for me btw). 

What do you guys think of this whole situation? I know it seems kinda like im a bitch here but I want to do sexual stuff with HER! So first off, how do i get  her to go a little farther with me when she comes over and how do i keep the process going so i can fuck her at prom? 

One more thing, when she was over the other day, i kept telling her that it fucking pissed me off what she did and that I understand that she can't do anything about it and that she stops flirting and shit with my friend. Not so demanding btw! so yah... I feel she definitely wants me though and would do stuff too! help me out boys. 

[amarok]

There's a shit ton of escalation articles which is exactly what you're asking for. Please read those articles before you post a new thread about a specific situation, the answers are all there. You're not gonna grow how you or we want you to unless you read what we've given you.

Why are you getting pissed at her for what she can't change? You're the one who was a bitch then and didn't fuck her. Don't blame her or your friend for doing what you couldn't.