Thoughts on eating a girl out?

[ilikegirls]

Hey guys, I know this is my first post and all, but I need some advice on this. This HB that I know really wants my D, and when I heard about it I asked her out on a date (yeah bad idea, I probably should've just asked her to hang out because I really don't want a girlfriend right now). Anyways we've been texting and she has explicitly stated that she wants me to eat her out and fuck her. I've never eaten a girl out before, and to be honest I'm more afraid of catching an STD than I am of doing a bad job. I heard through some friends that she's been with 5 guys before (she also told me she isn't a virgin), so based on that what do you think the chances are of me catching some STD like herpes or gonorrhea? I know it's impossible to tell, but based off of your experiences with girls in high school, do girls generally have STDs? We're both 17 an juniors at different schools. I don't want to use an oral condom because I don't think that would be cool with her (and pretty annoying for me). I've never heard of anyone using a condom when eating a girl out either. I'll use a condom if intercourse happens though. Also general tips on technique for eating pussy would be appreciated. Thanks guys. 

[amarok]

You can always ask her to get tested, offer to go with her, etc. If she's been with five guys it can be a genuine worry, likely or not. You should also ask her if she has any std's or sti's.

If you want to go ahead and not get her tested, a visual inspection can show you the signs of active std's, but this is a VERY faulty method. Many STD's either don't have visual symptoms or can go through phases of visual dormancy but still be contagious. I suppose the biggest question is, do you trust her?

[ilikegirls]

May 5, 2014 23:40:07 GMT -5 amarok said:

You can always ask her to get tested, offer to go with her, etc. If she's been with five guys it can be a genuine worry, likely or not. You should also ask her if she has any std's or sti's.

If you want to go ahead and not get her tested, a visual inspection can show you the signs of active std's, but this is a VERY faulty method. Many STD's either don't have visual symptoms or can go through phases of visual dormancy but still be contagious. I suppose the biggest question is, do you trust her?

We're both only 17, so I assume that we'll have to have her parents go with us or with her when she gets tested (or they'll have to know at least). I don't think they would be all right with the prospect of their daughter having sex with anyone, and why would anyone go get tested for an STD if they aren't intending on having sex with someone? So yeah, getting her tested probably won't happen. I don't know her very well, so I guess I don't really trust her much either. But then again, I rarely trust females. I'm seeing her this weekend, so I guess I'll ask her if she has actually been with 5 guys and if she has any STDs and hope for the best. Chances are I'm getting laid even if I don't eat her out, so whatever. I just wanted the experience I guess. 

[derekk]

I read somewhere that it's EXTREMELY rare to contract any kind of stds from oral sex, not sure if it was just some bro-science or actual facts.


tbh, if it looks clean, I think it'd be safe. If you just really dont wanna take the risk, use your fingers instead