It shouldn't be this hard

[eaglefan07]

I am a sophomore and would consider myself popular with most students. I am a four letter athlete and start all 4 good right...Wrong!

when it comes to girls i'm clueless and they do not show intrest in me I am hefty but because i lift it is not terrible I also I'm only average looking.

I have never been in a relationship I have fallen into a nice guy reputation of someone who does not take risk and this holds me back when trying to be flirty.

I am not like that any more but it is hard to shake. I need somewhere to start.

[amarok]

Welcome to the forum! Stick with us and put in the effort and you'll be a new person.

The first place to start is the Welcome personal message you received when you started your account. Follow the instructions, read the articles, and go put what you read and learn into practice. Then, come back and post what happened in great detail and we'll show you where you did well, where you were lacking and how you can improve.

Also, it doesn't matter what your situation is. Some of the most successful members of this forum past and present started in worse positions than you did. Appearances, as well, do not matter as much as you think. That doesn't mean you shouldn't strive to improve your looks, but don't make it a limiting belief.