what to talk about after the get 2 know eachother stage

[beast89]

I have a problem... when i first learned this pick up stuff it was so i can get girls and i progressed 2 tha point 2 where i can get girls 2 like me and even close but after i get 2 know tha girl and run out of stuff 2 really find out about her idz over i mean i start 2 feel like i have nothing else 2 talk about and everytime i try 2 get this issue solved ppl on here tell me y do i wanna keep talking anyway i mean i met this girl that i really like and have been spending time with her but what happens when i feel ive got 2 know alot about her and i have nothing else 2 find out i dont wanna just keep picking chicks up just so i can close i wanna be with her and possibly have kids in tha future but it seems like i have nothing else 2 talk about or nothing else 2 get 2 know

[shyguy]

I say go out and experience life with the girl. If you're constantly doing stuff with her you'll constantly have things to talk about. Find common interests. Gossip about other people. Don't make it more complex than it needs to be.

[amarok]

Moved this to relationships. This is a pretty common issue with relationships.

Shyguy is right. Also, bullshitting is a great skill to learn. You don't have to and shouldn't always be trying to learn everything about a girl. Not every conversation has to have meaning. The most fun conversations I have with people in general are ones where we're just talking about nothing and having fun with it.

[highabove]

the best thing that has worked for me is to make her talk. so just ask open ended questions and youll have never ending topics to touch on... You can talk about soda!!!! 

[elron]

So i love to talk so its actually something strange to answer.

This is what i suggest. Ask her a question, and spend the next 6 question following up with the first one. It shows her that you are intrested and you leanr so much about her.

I also suggest asking her deep questions, and having common intrest about the topics will make her more attracted to you.

[footballpua]

If you've already found out everything about her just play off of that. Bring up some old things you two connected on. Make some inside jokes. Just make it fun, you already know what she thinks is fun so just go do it!