ironzion
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Post by ironzion on Sept 2, 2014 6:26:25 GMT -5
Sup guys, so I met this cute chick at a party but me being the fucking beta I am forgot to ask for her number, but she gave it to me on facebook later on. so we had like a 2 minute conversation via text and it happened to be her bday (Not sure if important detail) but I went on to have a boring conversation and shit since i was really fucking busy with homework. I texted her last night and she hasn't replied since... I Blew it didn't i??
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Post by amarok on Sept 2, 2014 8:49:27 GMT -5
First, welcome to the forum (or welcome back). Second, calm your tits dude.
Third, you texted her last night... she probably fell asleep. Why are you getting so worked up? You got her number so what's the big deal? Next time, if you're busy or the conversation is boring and you can't think of a way to spice it up, just say you're busy and you'll talk later.
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ironzion
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Post by ironzion on Sept 2, 2014 9:55:12 GMT -5
Just got out of a relationship (which was by using the various information from this forum) and I guess im kinda desperate for action haha. Its just kind of embarrassing having to talk to her again after she didn't reply.
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Post by amarok on Sept 2, 2014 11:28:46 GMT -5
Don't be desperate. It's bad for you. Why is it embarrassing? I stop texting girls out of the blue a lot, eventually either I text them again or they text me. Don't make it this huge deal when it's not.
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Post by $wagg on Sept 5, 2014 16:05:41 GMT -5
Something we often forget is the natural ebb-and-flow of Life. Things Move, And then They Stop. We Live And Then We Die.
You breathe in and they you breathe out. Talk, and then silence. It's the SAME CONCEPT that Ying/Yang push/pull hot/cold point to.
Acknowledge this. Accept this. Respect this, but more important, love this shit. Eventually, as your game improves, you'll realize this is what you've been wanting to internalize and understand all along.
From that point, game just becomes a matter of flavoring. Zeh icing on zeh cake
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ihop
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Post by ihop on Sept 6, 2014 15:23:52 GMT -5
The reason why you're stressing so hard over it is because you maybe haven't had alot of girls that that are into you and this girl comes along and you're trying hard not to fuck it up. Another reason would be that you haven't been exposed to girls like this(girls who don't necessarily text back all the time).
There are some girls that just don't text back or text you back a half day later. It doesn't mean that she wouldn't be interested in you. What I would sugguest is to hit her up in a few days with something that is fun instead of boring.
Example: "ello govna, how's the day been going?" and keeping it playful
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derekk
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Post by derekk on Sept 6, 2014 19:14:52 GMT -5
perverted and funny is always the way to go when texting. If you're only sending serious/boring stuff, rethink what you're doing.
btw, don't use "ello govna, how's the day been going?" if you live in the US; girls will think it's stupid
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Post by amarok on Sept 7, 2014 8:15:45 GMT -5
btw, don't use "ello govna, how's the day been going?" if you live in the US; girls will think it's stupid I'm pretty sure the point is to be a little stupid
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ihop
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Post by ihop on Sept 8, 2014 7:13:31 GMT -5
perverted and funny is always the way to go when texting. If you're only sending serious/boring stuff, rethink what you're doing. btw, don't use "ello govna, how's the day been going?" if you live in the US; girls will think it's stupid Funny how I've used it before and it works great....
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