Post by Kev on Oct 11, 2014 0:27:17 GMT -5
I recently reconnected with this girl I used to talk to back in highschool two years ago. She's literally the same girl I posted about on here a while back (http://highschoolpuas.proboards.com/thread/7060/girls-who-got-off-relationship) to sum that post up, basically we hit it off good and really fell for each other but, her ex came back into the picture. Which of course like all naive high school girls she got back with her asshole of an ex. Two years later she's finally over him and realized what a scum he is (Dude literally slept with every girl in town, even my sister -_-) she even dated this rebound guy for a while. We started talking again through twitter and I even offered to help her get a job where I work since she told me hers sucked. We met up to apply at my job (she ended up not being able to apply because the computer at my job was broken) and we've been talking ever since, but in a more friendly way (compared to how we first met). Lately though I been trying to be a little bit 'more than friends' when I text her. She doesn't really say much about it. Which makes me feel like she just sees us as friends. She sends me selfies all the time and pics with her trying on clothes asking me if it looks good, and she vents to me a lot about her problems she's going through with her mom. I mean damn Im getting that gay best friend vibe, but recently she (joking) told me that I'm a sex offender because she's a minor (17 but turning 18 in like 2 weeks) and I'm 19. So that, in my eyes, tells me she acknowledges this is more than just a friendship? Is it because she's matured and has been hurt before? Maybe she's still not ready for a relationship? I mean honestly I wasn't really interested in talking to her like that again (even though Ive liked her forever) until we started talking and she seemed interested through text and carried convos (I tried being friends with her like last year but she would barely text back and never carried a convo) Maybe she's using me to get the job? She's only mentioned going back to apply like once or twice, usually I have to motivate her to go. We even went out one time to steak and shake and I offered to stop by my job but she said she was too tired.
I mean I wish I could just straight up ask her if she likes me and if she wants to take things further but I would feel like I'm being "thirsty". I really like her, I always did. But I don't know she seems very iffy. I feel like maybe me and her need some alone time in person (we haven't chilled 1 on 1 yet) . I hope you guys can help me out and enlighten me on the situation let me know if it's worth it or should I just forget her? Feel free to ask for more details, I feel like there's only so much I can cover through here lol.
I mean I wish I could just straight up ask her if she likes me and if she wants to take things further but I would feel like I'm being "thirsty". I really like her, I always did. But I don't know she seems very iffy. I feel like maybe me and her need some alone time in person (we haven't chilled 1 on 1 yet) . I hope you guys can help me out and enlighten me on the situation let me know if it's worth it or should I just forget her? Feel free to ask for more details, I feel like there's only so much I can cover through here lol.