[Guide] How to make-out in a loud club

[Michael]

Hello guys.
Like many of you I go out in weekends and most of the clubs are loud and you can't really talk to girls due to the music.

At the first sight you'd say in  loud club you can't pick-up girls .  As Mystery said " Where is a problem, there's an opportunity".

So take use of the loudness of the club.

Here is how I would pick up in a loud club on the dance floor: 

1. Move through the crowd as you would go to bar (for example). Look at a girl, smile and say " High five !" and rise your hand up.
2. If she gives you high five ask her " How are you doing?"
3. She says " I'm fine. What about you?"
4. Say to her " I am great. I'm having fun. What's your name by the way?"
5. She tells you her name and when you shake hands give her a spin and smile.
6. Dance with her and her group for a bit.( girls are rarely found alone, especially in a loud club).
7. Tell her " Come on! Let's have fun!" Take her hand and separate her from her group. Take her 1-2 m from her group.
8. Put your left or right leg between her legs and put your hands on her hips and dance. Go with the flow. 
9. Get closer to her. See how she reacts. If she do the same or she don't have a negative reaction it's on. You can go for the kiss.
10. Kiss her and then you can go on to the make out.

If you are in the club in a quiet area you can also high five her and ask her how is she, then go to the next routine and demonstrate value in order to generate attraction. Neg her while you tell DHV stories to her friends. Make sure everyone in the group consider you non-threatening and friendly.

When you see she's attracted to you, you can tell her and her friends "Let's go dancing. Come on guys "
On the dance floor you can start with the step 6.

Well this is it. I hope you will find it useful.

Please let me know what you think.

Good luck.

[shyguy]

Oh man...

[amarok]

Shyguy, I have to say that's not a very proper response. This guy is trying to help us. If we disagree with him, state why, what our position is and why it works better. That way conversation is facilitated and we ALL learn something new.

Mike, I'm sorry you've been filling your head with the Mystery Method. I don't have anything against Mystery, what he teaches works. But, it's geared completely towards adults. You should not, as a high schooler or even a college student, have to go to a bar or club to meet girls and the Mystery Method is geared towards that setting. Instead, you should focus on becoming a person that thrives in any social setting because they're a fun, likable and confident person. That's what we teach here. It's dubbed social circle game.

Welcome to the forum. I'm Amarok, one of the moderators. I'm in my third year of college. Please be chill, keep an open mind and stay willing to learn.

[Michael]

Hello Amarok, 

Nice to meet you.

First of all I'd like to thank you for your reply. I appreciate it.


You know, when I discovered the Mystery Method I was shocked ( the good sense ). You probably know how I felt, especially when I saw some results. 

If you don't mind, I'd like to ask you what method would you recommend me? I am 18 years old, I am not a virgin for almost 2 years and I consider myself sociable, I find it quite easy to talk to people, but you know like all of us here I have that the approaching fear. 

[swatt]

A method?

The natural method. Shape your normal personality into one that everyone wants to be around. This method works at school, the club, the gym, etc. We have a ton of information on the forum on becoming this awesome ass person. Also, if it helps you relate, I also started my life in game with the Mystery Method. It has its faults man. You come off as creepy if you do this in college or highschool.

Anyways, welcome to the forum! Read read reread and read. There is a gold mine of information here and it isn't going anywhere anytime soon. Use it. That's what I did and I promise you the information here works.

[theripper]

Yo Michael!

I think thats a really awesome guide.
Many guys think that clubs are actually a bad place to pick up girls but this is totally wrong.
Clubs are actually much better because:

1. Alot of hot horny girls at one place
2. You dont have to talk much(good for shy people)
3. you can move ALOT faster. I have gotten make outs in like 20 secs after approach

[amarok]

I think it is a bad place. Can you "pick up" girls? Yeah, you can get a quick make out, maybe even a full blown hook up. But have your skills improved at all? Are you more socially adapt? Can you make friends in a new scenario? Are you even able to get a girl for a second round? Are you less nervous, or shy? The answer to all of these in no. A club is like a crutch and an ego booster, in my opinion. Better to stretch yourself and build your social skills and be able to be successful in way more situations that sticking to clubs.

[theripper]

I absolutely agree with you armok but you also have to consider that not everyone goes to "make new friends in a new scenarios". Of course the club is not an enviroment to train yourself to be socially adapt but you can absolutely learn how to move faster with girls(your kill instinct) and I do think that it does make you less nervous and shy if you actually just go up to a girl and grab her seconds later. Thats not something every kiddo dares to do(If they are sober).I view it as a cool training ground where you can practice moving fast which is actually more important to me than socialising and ending up with no pussy.Also who would not want to have an ego-boost?