profyler98
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Post by profyler98 on Apr 9, 2015 20:03:34 GMT -5
Hey Guys,
Im new to this forum so Ill just start off that I am 16 and a junior in Highschool, and I am having a very difficult time with my love/hu life. Like whenever I go to a party I meet tons of new ppl and some girls that I even like. But I don't think I have the confidence to go any further. Like so far every girl I've liked, she becomes my best friend pretty much, and then there is no return. Like how do I tell her that I might like her, or at least signal to her? I haven't even had my first kiss lol so thats starting to get a little embarrassing. I feel like time is slowly running out for me to get at least some experience in that area before University.... Any tips on how to initialize the intimacy?
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profyler98
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Post by profyler98 on Apr 12, 2015 22:26:42 GMT -5
any advice? Or should I post on the general section or somewhere else??
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darkpwns
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Post by darkpwns on Apr 16, 2015 7:53:26 GMT -5
any advice? Or should I post on the general section or somewhere else?? What are you even looking for? If you're just starting out, don't worry about hooking up with chicks, instead worry about being able to socialize with people effectively, being able to create an emotional response in people, either good or bad and being able to set standards for what you will and will not accept from people. EDIT: On mobile, so didn't see original post. Straight up, the reason you don't make it anywhere with the girls you meet is because you're a coward. There's nothing inherently wrong with this, as most guys are. We're taught it's better to be liked by many and hated by none and therefore we aren't polarizing. You have to be polarizing, make your intentions known. Tell her you think she's cute, tease her, get her number, ask her on a date, try to kiss her, try to fuck her. You make your opportunities. A man that is bold will not end up in the friend zone unless that is specifically where he wants to be. Indeed, a man that is bold will either get with the woman he wants or she'll reject you, sometimes harshly. |
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devon57
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Post by devon57 on Sept 22, 2015 5:02:01 GMT -5
Hey, I am planning a Pool party with my friends at some venue space nyc. Can you suggest any venue? You can also share party ideas. Thanks in advance! |
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Post by Sloth on Jan 2, 2016 20:23:54 GMT -5
Sounds like you need to work on non-verbal stuff. Build sexual tension through eye contact, physicality and general confidence in your non verbal communication. You don't have a problem being cool if they're turning into friends, but sexuality is something that flows through a person, it's very rarely a vocal thing.
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profyler98
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Post by profyler98 on Jan 3, 2016 10:09:12 GMT -5
Sounds like you need to work on non-verbal stuff. Build sexual tension through eye contact, physicality and general confidence in your non verbal communication. You don't have a problem being cool if they're turning into friends, but sexuality is something that flows through a person, it's very rarely a vocal thing. I agree with you completely it's just I don't know how to be suggestive like that non-verbally, while not coming off as creepy and being rejected easily. I've actually never tried to be suggestive I'm just very chill all the time that's the problem I might be asking for too much.. |
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