Gaming after the pick-up

[sly]

Alright, so you picked up the girl, and she is totally into you, but do you have to keep up the same game as you were from the beginning? Normally i don't do relationships because stuff like this bothers me

What do you guys think?

[Rusty]

Lol dude relationships aren't about game. A relationship is not a game. Because it's not a game, you shouldn't make it one. You'll mess it up for both of you. Drop the game man =)

[Volt]

You should still maintain an alpha frame and be a fun, interesting guy, but you don't need to run routines.

[Chris]

yeah just express your awesome personality.

One thing that definitely keeps relationships from going stale is showing your willingness to walk away.

[Johnny Bravo]

Something I learned from a great teacher was simply
"Take her for a ride, take her on an emotional rollercoster"

Be alpha, don't be needy, always build and break rapport, something I used to do was one day totally be over her, next day kinda play hard to get c&f "You cant have this cock, its not for you, its for my other girlfriend" and just be sure to make her sad, depressed, happy, orgasmic.

Don't be afraid to fuck around inside her.

Literally and metaphorically

[Chris]

Dec 28, 2008 21:01:10 GMT -5 Johnny Bravo said:

Something I learned from a great teacher was simply
"Take her for a ride, take her on an emotional rollercoster"

Be alpha, don't be needy, always build and break rapport, something I used to do was one day totally be over her, next day kinda play hard to get c&f "You cant have this cock, its not for you, its for my other girlfriend" and just be sure to make her sad, depressed, happy, orgasmic.

Don't be afraid to fuck around inside her.

Literally and metaphorically

Exactly

[SamethP]

lawl ^^
mann, just be yourself
sure routines and shit are great for building interest, but during rapport and everything else, it should be YOU
not mystery, not style, YOU

[Johnny Bravo]

If you have to use a routine to get her...being yourself won't be the man she fell for.

Thats the thing about pickup either:
A. You use routines until your good enough to go natural or just shoot shit
B. You use routines and back them up with a personality that can mind fuck her.

I'll use opinion openers, I'll use chick crack, I use all that shit, but I also am myself afterwards, thats the key, most wont agree with me on this but....

I make pickup my life, I use it to change my life to what I WANT it to be, then I build on that.

I believe Mystery said something about "Attraction is having an attractive lifestyle"

You know? You can always sit and play wow, but when they ask what you did all day, you just 'chilled', or you can use pickup and be like "Well I went to the movies, chatted with some new friends, went shopping, met this one girl and we went to a water park, fiddle fucked around, you know, just normal fun shit"

I think pickup is more than pickup, its a way to shape your life into what you want it to be, and then how to talk to women.

You know?

xD

Love always, but not in a gay way
-Gay

[sly]

Alright guys i've read all your responses, and it seems like the best advice for it. Thx for looking it this, and the responses are great =]

[optimus]

I want to weigh in on the other side.

The game doesn't stop when you're in an LTR. Just because she's your girl now doesn't mean you're going to keep her. Attraction can turn off. I'm not saying you should lie to your girlfriend (IMO you shouldn't lie at any point during the pickup). But you should keep the push/pull; cocky/funny, whatever you did to build attraction.

If you change, she's going to realize that she was gamed and get out of there. Pickup is about putting your best self forward. Shouldn't you always want to be your best self?

[SamethP]

sure ^
just make sure that C&F and P/P are you
cause if you randomly stop
once again, bye bye

[jainarihant]

Yea but don't game her also, dont neg her, done that ,
result = a girl who has no self esteem, whining constantly and a break up in the end and youre the asshole

[SamethP]

depends how it comes across.... ^
if you're naturally a guy who is a bit of a smart ass [in a funny way] and your attitudes and what not reflect that, then negs are fine, they just come across as jokes, they laugh, you laugh, everyone laughs, done deal

[ellypho]

From a true PUA:

''Make her feel things she has never felt before. Make her know you're thinking of her in a romantic way and a sexual way. Enable her to be naughty. Make her try stuff she would never do otherwise. Enjoy her, that's what she's there for. All girls are here to be taken on a trip and to be enjoyed as who they are''

Read up on some David shade stuff, he's got some really good advice much of it along the lines of what i wrote.


**oh and I feel you're close but not exatly on the money in what you're saying. What learning PU really is, is to know what poeple react well and change yourself accordingly.**

Peace brothers