To have a gf or not, that is the question

[Johnny Bravo]

I was thinking last night in bed... (dont you hate that? You think all night then you say "OMG im going to do that for now on" then you wake up, and fuck, you forget all about it)

I was thinking about my ex, and how I really want a girlfriend, and it came down to this...

1. Have a girlfriend, have sex alot, practice on her, you know, the norm
2. No girlfriend, sarging, no clear sex, but meeting loads of people and PU

I really can't decide. Emotionally I want a gf, logical I dont.


Im against girlfriends in highschool for alot of reason. Im also kinda tired of chasing ass and not getting any.

So what I came up with last night was...

"I'd only date a girl if she was like my ex"

And i'll tell you what, my ex was amazing.... Hm, so what should I do?


We all know, highschool isnt the best place to meet women, so where would we meet these girls at?

Seriously, you can go to the movies every night, and where I live, hit on 8th graders, or you can game in your classroom, and be stuck to the 30-50 kids in your class, or you can go to parties once a month and maybe meet some girls.


You know.... I just can't decide right now where to sarge, what to do for a gf, and hell, Im questioning my attraction skills right now.


Maybe its because im sick.... Who knows.


Whatcha all think?


Love always but not in a gay way
-Gay

[jainarihant]

Hmm okay,

What if you practice game on your class mates + when you go to movies + when you go too partys

Test some things, don't close everyone maybe just test it out, high school sarging is pretty hard since u got a reputation over there, and rumours spread out easily.

Game everyone, even your mum

hehe joking... nah just have fun

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O yea th gf question, yea gf is good for expiremebnting and get sexual experience, get one you don't see regulary, someone who doens't know your friends which you go to parties with so you can continue gaming other chicks

my opinion , but could be hard to realise

[SamethP]

my opinion
go the gf only if you know that you can both commit
because what is the point of searching for the perfect person, if when you find her, you go out and game other chicks
doesnt feel right

but yea, thats my opinion

[SenorBubbz]

I feel the same way Gay...
I really don't know where to go to sarge. And I do want a girlfriend...

[secret]

i understand wat ur going through cause i to want a gf, but here how i solved my dilema, it seems u want a GF jsut to experiment, and get better in bed, maybe just go out and find urself a friend with benefits, i hve one she has a BF right now so we on hold LOL but when she off it bac to party time XD same prob here there no were good to game, so here my solution to u throw ur own party, find someone who parents r away or ur house if ur parents dnt mind, and throw a party, that a big Alpha boost, (me and my wing threw a party best night ever XD)if u want a relationship becasue u like a girl then go the GF path

[Volt]

Tough one, I guess it depends on who you're with, chick-wise.

[Johnny Bravo]

Ugh.... Sometimes its pussy...sometimes its a girlfriend.


Hard choice.

[SamethP]

mann the one i was just in
as soon as i asked her i got buyers remorse :\
dont let that happen

[sly]

Thats a good question bro, and really something to think about.

We are all in high school, and its hard for us to find places to sarge. You can go out to the mall, the movies. That's all i can think of really. The best thing i can you can think of if you want a place to sarge is if you look for like a teen club or something. Where i lived had a good teen club till it got shut down for alot of fighting.

About the girlfriend part i think it would be nice to always have a girlfriend you can always have sex with, practice, And go out with. You can still meet new people, and maybe if you really want go out and sarge without you're girlfriend. It sounds wrong, but if you want to practice your game there is always something to think about.

[Grape]

Well in the laws the nature, "go with the flow."
Intent and the human mind changes continuously.
You can go out one night going on one harmless date and come home with her thinking you guys'll be married.
You can wake up having a gf, and goto bed breaking up with her and picking up 5 new chicks. ( this just happened to my friend yesterday xD)
So if emotionally what you want is a gf, go for it. Just don't stop the flow because you logically think it's the wrong thing to do.
Who knows, maybe she won't be an LTR but it turns out her sister's friend will be your wife.
(edit)
and I think we all know the impulse we get with a target right before they turn into LTR/GFs.
That emotion my friend, should never be cut off by logic.
"Go with the flow."

[curlyhairedbastard]

i understand where your coming from and i have been thinking about it a lot.


i came down to having, 'fuck buddies', but basically with emotional involvement. so multiple girlfriends, i guess.


i have a girl who is great, sex is good and we connect. i'm not willing to give up all the other girls though,

so this is what i told her, in a confident way; after i laid her.


" look, what's the big deal if i have sex with other girls? None will ever replace you or take your spot, i promise i won't leave you for another girl and you won't know any of the girls i fuck "

her

" well, i guess your right "

" alright, glad we got that figured out, the worse thing about relationships for me is being tied down, so i usually cut them off fast "

[comedic]

Well even you you have a girlfriend, there is so many things to practice and gain (i.e Confidence, Leadership). Sarging isn't the only way you can become a better alpha man.

And even you have a girlfriend, you can go out and practice social skills.

But if you wanna close as many girl as possible, maybe a GF isn't the best solution.