Post by Andrew on Sept 30, 2008 22:04:20 GMT -5
Did you know that only Seven Percent of all communication is actual words? It breaks down like this:
-Thirty-Eight Percent of it is voice tone
-Seven percent is what you say
-and a whopping Fifty-Five Percent of all communication is body language.
Have you ever had a conversation with somebody online and they say something to you but you have NO IDEA that they arent really pissed at you, sarcastic, in love with you, or incredibly horny? This is because when we are talking online, we are only communicating seven percent of how we normally do.
Think about the SMOOTHEST thing youve ever said or heard anyone else say to a lady. Try to call back exactly how the person stood in relation to the girl, as well as the look on the face and even how they said it.
Now imagine that you see this beautiful girl standing at her locker, and you think of this smoothest thing to say, and somehow you get the balls up to go ask her. You walk over to her quickly, and hunched over a little under the weight of your backpack. You look at her, blush, immediatly look down at her or your feet (or worse, her chest), mumble your smoothest thing ever, and turn tail and leave.
Now how did she act in that past scenario versus in the original scenario?
Now, picture this. You see this Hot Babe at her locker, you muster up the nerve to go tell her the line or whatever it was. You look at her and walk straight up to her slowly, standing tall. Walking slowly she catches your eye as you walk over to her, you give her a little cheeky smile and muster all the sexual energy of your being into that one look right into her eyes, which you hold the entire way over or until she looks away and blushes (she might, dont be disheartened). You walk up to her, say in a strong , clear voice while still looking at her., "Smooooth Liiine."
How did that feel?
-Thirty-Eight Percent of it is voice tone
-Seven percent is what you say
-and a whopping Fifty-Five Percent of all communication is body language.
Have you ever had a conversation with somebody online and they say something to you but you have NO IDEA that they arent really pissed at you, sarcastic, in love with you, or incredibly horny? This is because when we are talking online, we are only communicating seven percent of how we normally do.
Think about the SMOOTHEST thing youve ever said or heard anyone else say to a lady. Try to call back exactly how the person stood in relation to the girl, as well as the look on the face and even how they said it.
Now imagine that you see this beautiful girl standing at her locker, and you think of this smoothest thing to say, and somehow you get the balls up to go ask her. You walk over to her quickly, and hunched over a little under the weight of your backpack. You look at her, blush, immediatly look down at her or your feet (or worse, her chest), mumble your smoothest thing ever, and turn tail and leave.
Now how did she act in that past scenario versus in the original scenario?
Now, picture this. You see this Hot Babe at her locker, you muster up the nerve to go tell her the line or whatever it was. You look at her and walk straight up to her slowly, standing tall. Walking slowly she catches your eye as you walk over to her, you give her a little cheeky smile and muster all the sexual energy of your being into that one look right into her eyes, which you hold the entire way over or until she looks away and blushes (she might, dont be disheartened). You walk up to her, say in a strong , clear voice while still looking at her., "Smooooth Liiine."
How did that feel?
