suplux
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Post by suplux on Jan 1, 2009 23:53:27 GMT -5
Hey guys,
I'm a 16 year old junior here in Georgia and I am an aspiring PUA. I'm not known for being smooth with girls or "scoring" many/any, but I don't necessarily have a problem talking to those I know, or those who I'm introduced to. Unfortunately, most conversations end up turning boring or unorginal, and due to how nice I act, and how much I smile, I'm ALWAYS thrown into the friends group. Also, cold approaches frighten me. However, I'm looking to start turning that around.
I've been studying this stuff for only a few weeks now, though I did study this a few months ago and took a break, because I wasn't confident about it's use for highschoolers. Now that I found this forum, however, I'm feeling great about learning.
So far I've read/downloaded tons of information, but I know the only way to truly advance is to just get out there and practice so that's what I'm poised to start doing.
My other interests include compters...and well computers so if you guys need any help on that front, just let me know.
See you guys around, Brandon
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Rusty
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Post by Rusty on Jan 2, 2009 1:05:56 GMT -5
Welcome man =). Remember, women don't draw the distinction at 'nice' or 'not nice'. If your a nice guy, dude that's awesome. Women draw the distinction at 'powerful' and 'not powerful'. So if you want her, be powerful and go get her.
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Grape
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Post by Grape on Jan 2, 2009 11:10:08 GMT -5
Hey!! Welcome to the forum man. Just spend your time reading the articles we posted, we've all been in your place some time in the past ;]
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suplux
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Post by suplux on Jan 2, 2009 12:11:49 GMT -5
Thanks for the great welcome guys!
King, you are right. I guess "nice" wasn't the right word to use in that situation. I don't act powerful enough with girls, and that's the problem.
Thanks, Brandon
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Volt
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Post by Volt on Jan 2, 2009 23:03:50 GMT -5
You don't need to be a domineering misogynist, just be fun and Alpha. Being OVERLY aggressive is basically caused by a fear that people won't respect you if you don't act that way. A true Alpha-male isn't afraid to get pissed, but knows how to be artful even in stressful situations.
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SamethP
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Post by SamethP on Jan 3, 2009 0:22:13 GMT -5
Welcome Welcome Welcome
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suplux
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Post by suplux on Jan 3, 2009 3:07:25 GMT -5
Volt, no worries, I didn't mean it like that. I simply meant that I would strive to make more of an attractive impact by acting more like the alpha, as opposed to being so beta and coming across as nothing more than a friend.
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Grape
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Post by Grape on Jan 3, 2009 10:45:21 GMT -5
Yeah!! Volt has it downn =] Good job
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Volt
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Post by Volt on Jan 3, 2009 14:10:48 GMT -5
Yeah and welcome too XD
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SenorBubbz
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Post by SenorBubbz on Jan 4, 2009 14:34:48 GMT -5
Best AMOG technique that I think would suit you perfectly: Giving everyone value. I mean everyone. That's what's great about being "nice."
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Luc
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Post by Luc on Jan 4, 2009 16:11:41 GMT -5
hey man welcome so considering you are big with computers, do you know anything about java? I'm stuck....
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suplux
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Post by suplux on Jan 4, 2009 21:06:32 GMT -5
Senorbubbz, that actually sounds like it would work out perfectly, and strangely at dinner that sorta happened (albeit unconsciously because I hadn't read your reply yet) and I believe I was AMOG, though there was only one other guy with us.
Also, Luc, I do know Java. Well, I do know the basics, nothing too advanced but I might be able to help you out.
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Luc
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Post by Luc on Jan 4, 2009 21:49:16 GMT -5
hmmmm im taking the ap class at my school it sucks and i hate it but im stuck now but hey u help me w/ java ill help u w/ pick up
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suplux
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Post by suplux on Jan 4, 2009 22:41:01 GMT -5
Haha sounds like a deal. I'll see what I can do.
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