Post by Dream on Oct 1, 2008 9:25:11 GMT -5
NLP And Expression in text - Gref
Okay so if you know NLP then you know that when communicating with someone 7% is what words you use, 38% is the tonality, then 55% is your body language. So when you're emailing, texting, etc. you're only portraying 7% of your total game!? That blows right. Well here's my own ideas and field tested theories to help it.
When you ask them a question such as: "Do you wanna hang out?" instead of the ? mark, replace it with a period. so it'll be: "Do you wanna hang out." Their conscious mind will think "oh it was a typo"(if they even notice it consciously at all) while they're subconscious is processing it as a command. They'll be more apt to say yes. And if you're feeling ballsy then go ahead and CAPS in embedded commands. "Do you WANT... TO HANG OUT." and that will just amp up the pressure to say yes. Now is it possible to portray your tone and body language in text? No way, right? WRONG. If you say anything C&F or teasing put in =P it's a tongue sticking out it shows that you're being playful. And you can display other moods and such with other smile faces. Smiles: Smiley Cheesy =D =) This is for devious or naughty >=) This is a wink Wink or Grin a heart <3
Okay so if you know NLP then you know that when communicating with someone 7% is what words you use, 38% is the tonality, then 55% is your body language. So when you're emailing, texting, etc. you're only portraying 7% of your total game!? That blows right. Well here's my own ideas and field tested theories to help it.
When you ask them a question such as: "Do you wanna hang out?" instead of the ? mark, replace it with a period. so it'll be: "Do you wanna hang out." Their conscious mind will think "oh it was a typo"(if they even notice it consciously at all) while they're subconscious is processing it as a command. They'll be more apt to say yes. And if you're feeling ballsy then go ahead and CAPS in embedded commands. "Do you WANT... TO HANG OUT." and that will just amp up the pressure to say yes. Now is it possible to portray your tone and body language in text? No way, right? WRONG. If you say anything C&F or teasing put in =P it's a tongue sticking out it shows that you're being playful. And you can display other moods and such with other smile faces. Smiles: Smiley Cheesy =D =) This is for devious or naughty >=) This is a wink Wink or Grin a heart <3
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