dante3x3
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Post by dante3x3 on Jan 12, 2009 17:56:01 GMT -5
Since when did online game get so big? I remember this forum as something where we discussed REAL LIFE INTERACTIONS. What happened? The real pickup has been put to the side by online game, and cyber with random girls whose looks, and even gender are probably in doubt. Artists, we are better than this. This perverted text based dirty talk is below us. I have heard alot of complaints about the lack of targets where various people live, and I have one thing to say to this: bullshit Everywhere there are girls there are targets see that pretty woman working at a waitress at your local diner, SHES A TARGET See your neighbor watering her plants? TARGET See every single attractive girl at school? TARGET See your teachers? TARGET (yes, its possible)
all of your keyboard puas. detach yourself from your computer monitors, and go outside. Take a deep breath, and go talk to a girl.
Dante
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Johnny Bravo
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Post by Johnny Bravo on Jan 12, 2009 18:59:41 GMT -5
I think your getting this wrong dante.
Keyboard pua's are people I thought that just read all these books, and spit back out in their own words.
I'll tell you what, I think and I may be wrong, I started this online game fling but not for that reason.
Look. Hell, I just did my first cold approach in class. Normally I will wait for a reason, but today I was showing off to this dude, and so I had an extra push and I even recorded it and will post it later.
But I started online game wayyyyyyy back before I ever did pua. There is this game called Habbo Hotel. And everyone would just spam "HOT MALE WITH CAM, PM ME MSN ADDY FOR CYBER" Now of course me being a horny 13 year old, I tried it.
I scored a few times, and found out I liked it once in awhile.
I don't do it for an ego boost.
I don't do it because I'm afraid to open girls in real life.
I do it because instead of playing WoW I can chat to a girl. A girl is still a girl.
So. I don't think online gaming is wrong, I think things such as Stickam, and Myspace are still legit, but Im not trusting espin.
As for the fact of keyboard pua's.... I don't think online gaming is a keyboard pua.
So. Maybe we can continue doing online gaming, to meet girls, phone sex, (that girl in the chat we all had, I'm going to try for phone sex from her, nothing wrong with that), webcams too.
But. Like I said, I don't see anything wrong with it.
Hell don't you do it?
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Post by Grape on Jan 12, 2009 19:08:09 GMT -5
Gay, we all agree that you DO in fact do live game, everyone here does. But from what I hear I think Dante is asking if you would rather spend your time and effort trying to get cyber sex or real sex.
Cyber sex isn't hard. and it's easy. (believe me. I scored tons when I used to be an AFC and used to be into social networks similar to espin.) Phone sex, yes. and it's moderately challenging/ Live sex, holy moly. it's the challenge most of the people are here for.
Just.. instead of spending your time scoring cyber pussy OR playing video games, go take a jog, read a book, do some leftover homework, call up a real target, just do something HEALTHY.
So.. I think we should do something AGAINST cyber sex. It's not cool, and you can agree with that now. People like SenorBubbz (lol) are getting into it and we don't want this thing in our community of SELF-IMPROVEMENT. Cyber sex is a mere action of self-degredation.
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Post by dante3x3 on Jan 12, 2009 19:21:01 GMT -5
People who game online only are keyboard puas (and yes, i agree with your definition, I even might have coined that term) because online game does not require any PUA techniques. A girl would not be on some chatroom, responding to "ANY 16 YR OLD GIRLS WANNA SUCK MY DICK" if she wasn't already committed to doing just that. This isint game, this is not talent, this is masturbation (literally and metaphorically). Now i appreciate that if theirs some model who you want to get her number off myspace, and this is the only way you are ever gonna get a ten. Go for it. Seriously. But for all of you who hide behind you webcams, and still have never K closed, man the fuck up. This friday, call up some friends, dress to kill, psych yourself up, go to the movies, or out somewhere, or something. Target the first girl you see. Just do it, dont think.
Dante
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Post by Johnny Bravo on Jan 12, 2009 19:33:06 GMT -5
We should do something against cyber sex?
Stop watching porn.
Stop jerking off.
Stop masturbation if you want to stop cyber sex.
This community of self improvement?
This is a community for seduction, and part of seduction is having a good life.
Any dickfuck can go around 'faking it til he makes it' and get laid. To get laid.
I doubt any person who gets laid came to this community, to get a better lifestyle.
Its sex. This community is all about sex.
Plus cyber sex is not bad for you in any way shape or form.
Now.... if your getting the vibe that i'm offended, im not, Im done with online game.
All im saying is, instead of looking at the same playboy every night, why not have another girl get you off?
Whether she be a man, or a girl, hot, or not, its getting you off.
You may think its easy, and some girls are easy.
But I've had LOADS of girls where they are challenges. I go for the hottest girls online, I go for the girls that say "Im not sending pics or cyber" in their name.
This is where the game comes in.
And lastly.
Its not bad.
Its something to do. I rather chat with a girl, than fucking run around the block. (No offense to you Grape, man love <3)
Hell I came up with my location tester idea for the ebook from online game, and used it today and worked like a charm.
So.
Stop bashing online game, I understand its popular, and hell if some kid is out there getting cyber pussy and preaching he is a pua, but has never kissed a girl. Yes I agree, he needs to get the fuck out of his house.
But for people like me, or hell, senor, no reason we can't online game
Last night, Nine and I went into stickam and tried to get this girl with 20 other guys in her room.
Tell me thats not game?
Love always but not in a gay way -Gay
(EDIT: Sorry, meant to click Quote)
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Post by Grape on Jan 12, 2009 21:41:27 GMT -5
Stop bashing online game, I understand its popular, and hell if some kid is out there getting cyber pussy and preaching he is a pua, but has never kissed a girl. Yes I agree, he needs to get the fuck out of his house. But for people like me, or hell, senor, no reason we can't online game (EDIT: Sorry, meant to click Quote) Gay, you say you plan on having sex 3 times. Do you think cyber sex is holding you back at all from using your time to help you reach your goal>?
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Post by Rusty on Jan 12, 2009 22:05:28 GMT -5
Lol woah chill out everyone. Dante, I'm with you man. I'd rather be outside gaming then inside online gaming (never online gamed before though haha). Not that I think there's anything wrong about online game. If you like it, shit go ahead and do it. Who cares what I or anyone else here thinks? I think the point Dante's trying to make though is that it doesn't take very much to be great with a horny chick who's on the other side of the world. It also doesn't take much to be confident when your behind your keyboard shield. I think he's saying, and I'll agree, that if you want to get good with WOMEN (improve your lifestyle, enhance your life) you need to get out of the house and deal with women in real life scenarios. I don't think anyone here is just looking for sex. Buy a prostitute. We're all here because we feel that something is missing in our lives and we're having a go at finding and fixing it. Maybe being a virgin is part of that missing piece, maybe being unconfident is, maybe you think that you need to have sex with a different chick everyday for 4 years and that's a part of the missing piece. I think he's saying (or maybe I'm saying it) that we shouldn't loose track of why we first came here. In conclusion, everyone loves everyone here. Nothing wrong with online game. Go out a little. Know why your here. Stop being so serious everyone jesus hahaha. I'm going out right now, I have a date with 2 swedish chicks in a pool. It's a hot day. It's gonna be great, I hope you guys will do something today to. Just smile guys haha, jesus.
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Post by Johnny Bravo on Jan 12, 2009 23:27:58 GMT -5
Not really Grape.
See you guys are missing the most important part...
I game online when I want to jerk off, or am bored.
What does that mean?
Means I have nothing to do, or nothing I can do.
So...when its 11 pm, on a wensday night and I don't feel like porn. Where would I have gone....?
Thats right, espin.
I don't do it for the ego boost, or to be a 'pua' I do it to fulfill a need.
Thats all xD
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Post by Dream on Jan 13, 2009 12:29:46 GMT -5
That's the same with me. I have completely stopped online game in the day, it's something to be done when all other options are exhausted
Hell, I've even stopped online game, and I'm the moderator of that forum *hopes he won't have that removed*
Reason is, I'm doing work and/or writing my screenplays
But it helped me a lot, not so much learning but for, as grape said, fulfilling a need.
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Post by Johnny Bravo on Jan 13, 2009 14:05:01 GMT -5
I said that
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Post by Grape on Jan 13, 2009 16:24:07 GMT -5
Yuppers. I dont think there's anything wrong with online game itself. it's good to get an idea of how girls will respond to stuff, it'll help boost ego for AFCs, etc. Once you get good at online game, it's time for you to get out there, and I think everyone else has agreed with this so far. Yes, online game is there for us when it's 11pm and we're just relaxing on our computers. But the cyber sex is going too far in my opinion. As i've stated before in my online game guide and as Rusty has stated, give yourself a reality check of your intentions.
Gaming chicks online that live around you <= Benefit Trying out new ideas and material on girls online <= Benefit Staying home and spending your time getting cyber pussy <= Loss
No cool natural stays home and has cyber sex. It's fact. Is staying up at 2-3 in the morning and having cyber sex with girls whose names you don't even know Healthy, Beneficial, Smart? I think not.
So in my opinion, online game is a benefit. Cyber sex is not.
<3 Grape
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Post by Dream on Jan 13, 2009 16:58:08 GMT -5
Well, I've got one girl I met who I have cyber with regularly, just because IT'S BETTER THAN PORN She's eloquent So we're going to have phone sex, hey, maybe I might be able to get a lay And so I no longer have to chase cyber, meaning it lasts as long as I need it to.
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Post by Grape on Jan 13, 2009 18:20:58 GMT -5
Well it's good because she lives within your distance. It's working your target for a real lay. However cybering with chicks miles away won't do anything but hurt.
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Post by Johnny Bravo on Jan 13, 2009 18:54:03 GMT -5
Wanna go into detail how it hurts someone?
And hate to say this.... But no cool natural reads guides on how to get girls.
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Post by SenorBubbz on Jan 13, 2009 19:08:10 GMT -5
People like SenorBubbz (lol) are getting into it and we don't want this thing in our community of SELF-IMPROVEMENT. Cyber sex is a mere action of self-degredation. lolwut? Oh, forgot to post about my real life game in a while. It's going good and I only rely on online game to talk to girls I game who live far from me, but who I also see IRL. For example, 2 girls who live in Brooklyn and another girl who lives in another part of Queens.
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