enigma
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Post by enigma on Jan 13, 2009 21:38:10 GMT -5
Just my two cents:
I don't think there's anything wrong with online game or cyber sex because to each his own.
I do, however; think that posting you're cyber logs is very counter-productive because it has little relevance to pick-up and doesn't really help anyone.
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Johnny Bravo
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Post by Johnny Bravo on Jan 14, 2009 0:26:20 GMT -5
I actually know quite a few people who it has helped.
They've seen how to transition from what I do, what to do during cyber. Hell I had no idea what cyber was my first time.
Took me years to learn what I do now.
But I like how you are understanding about 'each his own'
xD
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Post by Volt on Jan 14, 2009 1:27:43 GMT -5
I've used some of his materials and his general timeframe for escalation. Being able to see IOI's happen in a low-stress environment helps you recognize them when you're online gaming. Anyway, at worst, logs are clutter. I think they're useful though.
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SamethP
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Post by SamethP on Jan 15, 2009 0:05:21 GMT -5
how the hell did i miss this ranting thread short and sweet i agree that online game is becoming popular.... far too popular.... even i am cutting back on it shitloads... the only time i will online game now is if they add me and start the conversation or if im trying to organise a day 2... no harm in those... i back what has been said on the previous page 100% true that a lot of us started PUA for sex. BUT after starting have we not realised that we are missing something in our lives? whether that something be confidence, charisma, body language, whatever. and havnt we all started working hard to improve these sections of our so called 'game?'personally, i was using online game for a while, but mostly as a basic test to try out different things, different stories etc and see what the reaction is varying from HB to HB. But after that, i amped up the focus on my real life game ten fold, the result, a HB9 gf from my first cold approach. so online isnt a bad thing, its more or less a training ground or an organiser in my opinion. Everyone needs to cut back on online game and focus on real life... sure i agree with that, all it can do is improve our lifestyle, our social network, our school achievements, the list goes on. once again, short and sweet
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Grape
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Post by Grape on Jan 15, 2009 18:42:29 GMT -5
Yeah, so pretty much everyone is in agreement that online game isn't hurtful if not abused. Life is about balance, so we shouldn't spend too much hours on the computer or too much time outside (yes. one CAN spend too much time out imo)
As for the cyber sex.. you rarely know the actual face of the person, you don't even know the chick. Hell it may be fun, and you guys do it when you're bored. But let's not sacriface IRL gaming time for online gaming time like the day time, evening time. if you're still on at 2 in the morning and you're not doing anything important the morning after, go for it.. what else do you have to do right?
So cyber sex is just like television, reading books, videogames, playing music, taking jogs, or any other interest one may have. It's something some oppose and some support. But we need to make sure we do it at the right times. just like TV. Would you rather be having fun with friends or watching TV? Would you rather be having fun with friends or playing Halo 3? and the list goes on..
<3 Grape
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SamethP
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Post by SamethP on Jan 16, 2009 6:13:43 GMT -5
end of discussion
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