My first day of juniour year[FIELD REPORT]

[themachine]

Reguarding the previous post like. Try not to give a fuck andtuff but like I don't know what to do to make girls notice that I'm unque and I value I try to look like I'm having fun but in first period I find it extremely difficult where I don't have my friend in class I also find it difficult when the classes are quiet and it is mostly the teacher lecturing. I'm trying to make the area around me seem fun but I cannot just seem to draw attention from the girls around me to even get a comment one girl hopped in at one point but it was only to shoot me down for something And I stood up to two amogs in the back because I dint take any of their bull shit, anyway that's all that happened today except during sixth period I'm working in a group, it's a friendfrom the basketball team the new girl and me. Well I was answering the questions on our worksheet and she goes"I think you justtry to rush through the problems sometimes ou have a good idea but sometimes yo just put answers to get it right, your also rude." what the fuck I barely said any words to this girl was this a shit test? I just gored it what should I do?

[Nick]

You are "Putting the Pussy on the Pedestal." In other words, you are putting women above yourself and putting yourself down. You are being Beta just by doing that alone. You need to treat everyone the same; as easy to get, average, chicks. Yes, and treat your friends like ugly chicks too... I have trouble with this myself but you can't keep being such a try hard...

Secondly... Regarding her comment... Correct me if I'm wrong but... I can only make out that you were speeding ahead of everyone and just giving them the answers on a worksheet. That's not necessarily good because that puts you in the Beta position of trying to please others. I'm not saying to not be smart, but honestly, don't aim to please. And don't ever be rude... It wasn't a shit test, she was probably legitimately mad.

[themachine]

Not even bro I take my time doing work we I was answering the question and my friend looked at the girl for reassurance then she makes that
comment. I don't think I'm putting the pussy on the pedaststal I'm just trying to make myself seen high value.

[misterflower]

Ude just read what we told you to read and then acton it stop neglecting yourself look at what you've been sayingabout yourself. You are putting yourself down and everybody can feel your bad vibe. Even all of us can feel it. Please do me a favor and act on the information we are giving you. Were trying to help you. It'd be nice if you did yourself and everyone else a favor and acted on this. If you don't like something about yourself you change it. You need to understand that it's not about getting people to like you or being cool. It's about having fun and finding happiness within yourself, not outside conditions. Look at all of this valuable information all around you. Think if the billions of hot women in the world. How can you possibly fuck up that many opportunies if you take action on them? Read my last post and the rest of this thread again. There's enough good in this world to outweigh the bad. You can only to the limitations of your own point of view. Realize the abundance and then embrace it. It's called cause and effect. Action, reaction.

[themachine]

Well I ,mean according to the hspua books and posts you have to have a huge circle and stuff to be great im just trying to improve my life socially I need a starting point.

[Eastcoast]

holy man ?
You gotta have a huge mindset change. Just because people think your a creep or a quiet guy does that make you one? No it doesnt
Before PUA i didnt even have a social circle or anyone to eat lunch with now i have a bunch of friends who are awesome.

First of all start off small, people are more open to talking to you in class. Your making excuses as far as class time goes. You can always talk, just learn when to and when not to. Just talk to people about anything they can relate to like, what did you get on the test?did you see the sports event this weekend? ufc is becoming hugely popular so if you know a little bit about that its a easy one. People will talk for days about themselves.

Try to make some friends and get people to talk to. Just talking to people will show them your not a creep or quiet and theyll be like oh shit this guys cool. Dont go all overeager on people just keep building the friendships.

As for the girls dont overdo it. I would reallly reccomend making friends with girls before you start going after them because they will introduce you to new people and invite you to parties and whatnot.

As for all the guys saying go fucking do it, there right that we cant change anything for you, only you can. Use the advice of the forum and work on improving.

[Shampoo]

I solved the problem. I know the kind of person you are. Your reality is that YOU ARE trying but your not succeeding. People look at you differently and guys dont really hangout with you. You WANT to make friends and get girls but you dont have the social circle. You have 1 best friend who doesnt really see you as a best friend but as a good friend.

This is what your ganna do, I know every high school has like 15 min of open time in beginning of school. Use this time to socialize. You dont need to jump straight to girls. You might need more male friends that have access to girls. But just follow the one friend you have and when hes talking with another friend step up and add something with value. Thats all man but the key point I want you to remember is:

ACCEPT YOUR REALITY

[themachine]

Hmmm well, I been talking a lot more lately just not in first period I can't progress the conversation past schoolwork. Second period me and my friend crack jokes, and get the two girls in front of us to laugh, but I can't seem to woo the girl next to me(she focused on some other guy or she is just copying work) Third period me and my friend from the basketball team just joke around talk and stuff I can tell the girls behind us listening to our conversation, but it is nothing more than "Girl:do you wan't to buy a fruit snack?"
Me:No.

Fourth period is after lunch and I'm only cool with the teacher, and one football player, but he on;y talks to his girlfriend, I try to make jokes, but it's meh.

5th AP English, one girl next to me will occasionally talk to me,but the conversation is very brief.

6th period Avid. The funnest class I have man it is soooo funny man today me and my two other friends were in groups and these 2 other girls joined in like talking wise, but they were talking more to my friend then they were to me so......like IDK what to do, so I just talked to my other friend, but man im glad I have that class.

[RedDog]

Great job man, keep it up, glad to see you took some of our advice. You're on the right track.

[themachine]

Yeah, but I may have just run out, I might have 6th period basketball and it will f*** up my whole schedule.

[guido sensation]

you have progressed much since the beginning of this thread young skywalker

[Johnny Bravo]

I like how you've started talking....this is normal, its called making friends.

But let me explain something to you. Its called Validation.

You feel like you are shit. Like you have no fucking friends. Like you are some creeper in the corner.

You are.

Know why?

Because your the kind of dude that cannot validate himself, and thats weird. No girl wants a guy like that.

By validate yourself I mean this..... you look for others to like you, and if they do, you feel good. If they don't you feel bad.

Everyone has this to an extent, but most alpha males don't. Think about this situation...

for this example, your name is bob.

you walk into class, the player in the back of the class with two girls on his arm says
"Hahah girls, look at bob, what the fuck is he wearing? I swear i saw that at goodwill, hell, I think I bought those off a bum and sold it to goodwill. Hes a fucking pussy"
The girls laugh at you and agree.

How do you feel?

You feel like shit. right?

About 80% of the population will. And only 30% of highschoolers actually get laid. So whats the issue? Those 20% are the guys who don't fucking care,

Let me repeat this...this is important....

YOU DO NOT GIVE A FLYING FUCK WHAT OTHERS THINK, WHAT OTHERS WANT, WHAT OTHERS FEEL.

You want what you want. If you want friends, you want them becuase YOU want them. Not so you can feel good. But becuase you are good and you deserve friends.

Do you understand?

The reason your a creeper is becuase you look to a girl to be like

"ohhh bob, your so fucking amazing, I love you, your a player!"

When a girl sees this she thinks
"wow, bob is a fucking loser that can't be happy with himself"






This principle is "to love others, you must love yourself". You have to validate yourself.

To do this (to validate yourself) it requires three things:
1. Self confidence (WHICH YOU DO NOT GET FROM OTHERS. Otherwise your fucking feeding from their validation.)
2. Feel happy with what you have, feel accomplished. Whether it be becuase you made breakfast by yourself, jerked off with out porn, didnt jerk off, talked to a girl, ANYTHING YOU DID, it should make you feel happy and more confident.

So do this for me. Make a list of 10 goals. Nothing huge, nothing extreme. Small things or medium things you can do any day, but you don't. Do them. Cross them off. Feel happy, feel accomplished, feel fucking amazing. Validate yourself. Once validated, go to step three

3. To validate yourself, get what you want. You feel great, you are confident, so go get what you want and the cycle will continue and you will get happier and happier.

Don't look for validation, just take what you have earned. If its friends, its friends. If its pussy, take it.


Every time someone on here calls you a pussy, dont fucking defend yourself. Your a pussy dude. Thats why you don't have friends. thats why you are a virgin. Accept it and fix it.

The fact you are complaining about not being about to do anything about your life shows your a fucking pussy.

Wake the fuck up. We are showing you the door, step through it.

[misterflower]

^
:')
beautiful

[themachine]

Actually I don't need validation, I'm just looking to improve.

[themachine]

Should I go to homecoming no date though.